Is it normal for a married man to have lunch brought to him at work everyday

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So I'm a married man and there's a female at work that brings me lunch everyday sometimes he even makes me dinner

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Based on 31 votes (11 yes)
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  • ajayllg
    7 years ago

    Hay,,why not take those lunches guilt free, sweet deal man!
    But Remember the Elephant and the ant story, The Lady elephant took the ant across the river on its back, and the ant said "thank you for carrying me Ms Elephant"
    The lady elephant said" thanks nothing..Better take those pants off"
    nothings free!

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  • flwrswhisperingnthenight
    7 years ago

    i dont think thts normal at all...its nice..you know, the food and all but your wife might get upset.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I think so to so I never told her. Sometimes I just day I had a late lunch but it was because my coworker already fed me. Or I will say I'm going to buy lunch.

      The thing is now my coworker is offering to wash my uniform to

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Is this she a she or a he? Read your OP you call this person both.

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    • ajayllg
      7 years ago

      good eye I didnt catch that
      i bet you read leases and contracts thoroughly , thats a good thing.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        Thank you yes I do read contracts carefully.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Really I dont see that. I am he, wife is she and a she brings me lunch....

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        Lets try again I'll help you...

        "So I'm a married man and there's a female at work that brings me lunch everyday sometimes HE even makes me dinner"

        See that HE there 5 words from the end? Who is that? Are you referring to yourself in the 3rd person or is that HE the person that makes the lunch?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          Let me pat you on the head.

          Good girl!!!!

          Very good you spotted the mistake and clung on to it like a pit bull until you got your treat.

          Okay now lets move on....

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          • mysistersshadow
            7 years ago

            Aw and it only took 2 weeks for you to see your own stupid typo.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    OMG you are married to a SHIM.

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  • JamieWoj
    7 years ago

    You know whether or not its right or wrong so don't come here to get validation from strangers. If you didn't feel it was wrong on some level, you wouldn't even have to ask.

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    • snicolee
      7 years ago

      exactly my thoughts, its definitely not normal and leading down a wrong path

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Well it feels kinda strange but if I refuse then I will be just hurting myself or making my life more difficult. I'm really tired of eating Chinese food and have told my wife but she just refuses to cook. I still cook b/c I like home cooked food. So my choices are eat Chinese to make my wife happy or eat home cooked and not let her know.

      You know what I have my answer...this thread can close.

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  • goodatgiving
    7 years ago

    If the co-worker is a she maybe they could act as a topless waitress......

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Giving it more thought. I think if someone really cares and loves someone they find joy in cooking for and taking care of that other person. I've seen people who come home and the first thing they do is make sure their dog has fresh food and drink. Why not a human being? Why are humans less than animals now? To me clearly this other female is going out of her way to she him she cares and will take care of him. Its only a matter of time before he chooses her imo.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    WTF?

    Sorry to tell you but I think your wife is slipping. I'd say keep getting meals from the co-worker. Breakfast, Lunch, Diner whatever she's cooking. She wants to wash cloths fine. Don't short change yourself because a spouse or other falls short. You deserve all the good treatment you get from anyone who is willing to give it. {PERIOD}

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