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I'm a dude 'dating' an ex and have been regularly seeing her, she knows I want more but she wants to keep it casual, I'm going along with it but its hurting me. Most guys would love a NSA arrangement, right?
If you can't change her mind and that's really hurting you, the choice is clear, isn't it? Move on and find someone who wants a similar relationship to yourself.
The mistake you made was thinking that being close and sexual would mean she'll eventually come back to you. Nah, that only works in movies.
Friends with Benefits isn't for winning someone back, or trying to develop a romantic relationship, it's just sex. However, ending this relationship and working toward moving on is the right thing to do.
Well I'd go along with it....for awhile. Remember that people grown and change. We are fluid. So take this time to make her feel special. She may see the way you treat her and really think, "oh my goodness, this guy is so sweet that I want more!"
That being said, if she doesn't get there after awhile, I dunno, 6 or 8 months, I'd say, then she obviously needs to see what her life will be like without you.
I'm in the exact same situation as you are right now and it hurts that he doesn't want more than just be friends.
What seems to be the problem here, have as much sex as you want and no baggage, seems like a "win win" situation to me?