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So, this is not a situation I'm in. But I was watching dateline and they have the very young looking 19 year old. If you look at her and hear her you would think she's 12 or 15. If you see her and are sexually attracted is it wrong? She looks like a minor, but she isn't.
hmm that's one of those controversial topics I guess. Is it more wrong to be attracted to a young looking 20 year old or an older looking 12 year old?
There is no law against being attracted to a 12 year old and there is no reason not to be as many 12 year olds have already developed secondary sexual characteristics. However most 12 year olds are not mentally mature enough to make decisions regarding sex and thus there is a law prohibiting sex with people of that age.
there's a moral squickiness about 12 year olds being attractive though :)
Perhaps from the girl's vantage point a hairy old man looks repulsive but I think it's not true that because of an artificial age limit imposed through law one would have to think a 12 year old girl is actually repulsive. Men are attracted to smooth skin, firm boobs, not necessarily big, hourglass shape and lack of emotional bagage and this is what these girls possess so one would have to seriously lie to himself to say they are unattractive.
Oh man... I'm reading this from the view point of the 20 y/o that looks 12 because I'm 21 and people keep asking me how old I am. I can't stand being told I look 12 but it's at least a weekly thing for me -.- I'll tell you what! That young looking girl doesn't want you old guys looking at her!! Though I suppose its better than the alternative.. I had a 15 y/o hit on me... so bad. It also sucks with people saying that you're a pervert for thinking she's attractive when she looks 12.. dammit. We're just a whole different type of girl. We look younger than we are, and we're way to cute for our age, it's simple as that, there's just no love for the adorable girls these days.
She is still a woman, and every woman has needs. She shouldn't be punished for looking young.
when you think about it, for most of history people got married at 14, so this is entirely normal
OK, y'all be prepared to be outraged!
My girlfriend is 41 years younger than I am. She is 25, not 12, quite legal and most guys think she's pretty attractive, in a sporty/healthy way. We are having a great time together sailing in the West Indies and for me it sure beats sailing/living alone.
But it wasn't so long ago in western society that girls were married off at 12, having children and running a house hold, so the laws today are pretty new. The male animal however, may very well be attracted to a 12 year old, but as a member of society, he has to follow the conventions of his time.
Actually, in many 3rd world countries today, a 12 year old girl can be married off and having a family.
So it really matters where you are talking about this 12 year old girl/woman.
There are lots of girls who have child-like features but are of legal age.
If a 20 year old has a gorgeous face and small breasts its fine.
But its easy enough for a 12 year old with mature features to pretend to be 20 so u should insist on seeing some kind of identification before you get intimate with her.
Try taking her to a club where they will insist on seeing her id or drivers licence before serving her a drink.
And if, as you say this girl is on some sort of dating site then something is definitely wrong here because if she's as pretty as you say then she would already have a boyfriend and wouldn't need to meet guys on dating sites.
I think you're lying and are just a perv that is attracted to some 12 year old girl that you've seen.
No its not normal and yes it is wrong.. It doesn't matter if her real age is more than she looks.. she looks like a child and its sick to be attracted to children. Thats like a straight guy asking "is it normal I'm attracted to a girl who looks like a guy?"... No because you are a straight guy and the girl clearly looks male so whats the attraction?
So simply if you were a pedophile yes it would be normal for you to find that attractive however if you were not a pedophile then no thats not normal.
you, you are the reason I want the apocalypse to happen have you seen the fucking 12 year old's walking around these days??? they look like they are 17 or 18 and dress like sluts its nearly impossible for 90% of most straight men NOT to be attracted to that, but its 100% okay to be so long as they aren't having sex with minors who is anyone to judge us?
Yeah, not that weird man. As long as you're not gonna go after a 12yo....