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I really want to date but,i despise woman even if hot ones hit on me i go on the defensive,so is it normal and how can i solve this problem?
Meh. I won't say you're lying but I can't see why unless it's at times where you are doing something and it distracts you and takes up your time from something you are trying to do. I personally like it when people in general hit on me but there have been times where I have been busy and they have done so and I got irritated, which had little to do with them hitting me and more to do with me being busy at the time, which may be the case here? I may be wrong.
I wouldn't say it's normal to get irritated at people initiating interest in you unless it's stopping you from your everyday life.
Check out sexualities more, you may not be heterosexual. Chances are you might be asexual. Or something else possibly, no need to shove a name on it. You probably feel annoyed at females because they don't notice you.
Figure out why you go on the defensive and stop it. Also, you're asking two completely different questions here.