Is it normal for a guy to threanted me just because i wouldn't stop texting him

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Is it normal for my ex boyfriend to threatened me with words saying I better leave him alone if not he will do something he don't wanna do? Plus he gave me a warning. I mean why would he do that? I understand he wanted me to stop texting him because he isn't interested in me anymore but he could had just said "I'm not interested in you anymore, I found another woman" and I would had understood and walked away but he goes out and tells me this, and now I'm scared of this guy and what he might do.

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  • aljo
    7 years ago

    Maybe I'm reaching, but it sounds like your the kind of person who doesn't read messages clearly. In this case, the first set of messages were "leave me alone". The latest message was "please, stop, or I'm going to to have to do something I don't want to do". Yes, a threat, but not all threats are physical. In this case, it sounds like he figured you weren't getting the message in text so he told you in person so he wouldn't have to take legal action, like a restraining order. Which, if you really are texting him that much, is probably something he could do as it would be considered harrassment. Plus he has records of those texts whereas anything he said to you in person would just be your word against his.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      No he didn't tell me in person, he text it out to me. And I got that message loud and clear and since then haven't text him at all, nor will I. Because one I block him on everything, and second why would I want to be with a guy who threatened me like that?

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    Threats are generally not ok...but it doesn't sound like you're innocent here. If you hadn't been pestering, would he have made a threat? Why does he have to tell you he's not interested if you already knew? Why were you continuing to harrass him if you knew he wasn't interested.

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  • sugarrmagnolia
    7 years ago

    No he should not be threatening you!

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  • KennyD69
    7 years ago

    You should NOT have been harassing him and in some areas ; your constant texting is considered STALKING and yo can go to JAIL ....

    I would have threatened you too if you kept pestering me and texting after we broke up .. That is childish behavior to keep constantly bothering someone when you are broken up ....

    Hopefully; you STOPPED texting him .... Leave him alone ... and you'll be just fine ... IF you don't , you will be asking for whatever happens ...

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    It's not cool that he threatened you... tell the police if you feel in danger and stop texting him

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