Is it normal for a girl to turn lesbian after a guy says no to a relationship?

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I have a friend who poured her heart out to me saying she wanted to be with me, except I had no attraction to her. She's a great friend but I don't see her in a sexual way. I tell her no gently but find out a week later that she's now lesbian and still wants to be friends. I mean she's had boyfriends before but I was the last straw I guess. Now even her mom wants me to get together with her to bring her back to the straight side.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    She is a fake lezbian most likely looking for attention. People arent lezbian just because there is no male choices.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    ^ Lol, Dappled have more confidence in yourself mate, I'm sure not every woman turned lesbian after being with you :-)

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    • dappled
      13 years ago

      Well, to be fair, it wasn't every single one, no. But if there's ever a requirement for a lesbian army, I reckon I could raise one single-handedly over the course of an average weekend! :)

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      • Darkoil
        13 years ago

        Hahaha

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    Yeah it sounds like she is embaresed after your rejected her, and worryed about loosing your friendship or the awkwardness between you two. So she told you she is a lesbian to get rid of any sexual tension or wierdness she thinks there might be.

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    • Darkoil
      13 years ago

      Yeah that sounds about right i think

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Or she is a confused lesbian who clung to you for the friendship. It's a fine line when you are figuring things out.

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    Pull her pants down and fuck her in the ass that will straighten her out.

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  • Stargazer101
    13 years ago

    Perhaps she was desperate to be with you because she knew her mum wouldn't like finding out she was a lesbian? Just a thought.

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  • joelsmo
    13 years ago

    her mom need to put her into therapy and not put this onto you. She is just confused and needs help

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hahah dappled, I like your sense of humor! I'm sure it's not true tho ;)

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Women usually turn to lesbianism AFTER a relationship with me. It's happened so often and it doesn't say much for me if I can turn girls off my entire gender.

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    • wreckd
      13 years ago

      I have the same affect on men. My husband and maybe one other guy have stayed straight. The rest are all now gayyy.

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      • dappled
        13 years ago

        Lucky you and I aren't together. The world would probably end! :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    maybe she is bi?

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  • xo22
    13 years ago

    This happened to me but the other way around haha

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    That's a little weird. I don't think you can just turn gay like that. But I've heard of thing's like this before. Today, it's probably normal.

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