Is it normal for a girl to be obsessed with a girl that's younger than her?

Okay, I have a friend that I've known for almost ten years. She's the daughter of some family friends, and we get on really well, even though she's three years younger (16).

Basically, I have a very creative mind, and I love to write/come up with stories, and she's my main character in many of them - even though I give her a different name.

There's just something about her which means I'm always drawn to her. Not in a romantic way at all, I'm just constantly wondering what she'd do in situations that I invent for story plots.

I do check her facebook page often, and I get really happy when she puts new photos up as she's really pretty, and it allows me to envision her in my stories. I'm also often hoping that I'll bump into her on the street or something. But I don't do anything else, nothing harmful.

When I do see her (which isn't really that often, or as often as I'd like) I feel really insignificant and inadequate compared to her, because she's just got this amazing fashion sense and is always really sweet and kind, and feel like an awkward idiot when in conversation with her, as sometimes I'm so happy to see her I can't stop being jumpy.

I often find my self wishing I was her best friend, and know everything about her. Even though we are friends, I don't often see her so we're close but not that close.

She doesn't know any of this at all, we are friends, and have been for years. Is my behaviour normal?

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44% Normal
Based on 32 votes (14 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • Avant-Garde

    So, she's sort of become your muse?

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  • This was really cute, I smiled more and more the further down I read haha. It sounds like you just admire her a lot. But only you can say if its something more...

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  • squirrelgirl

    I have a hard time believing that there isn't some element of romantic attraction between you and that girl. Trust me, I know; I used to be in the same situation as you a long time ago.

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  • I'd say you where attached to them I liked someone like that then one day I wondered why do I like this person so much then he stories got more romantic and I realised I was in fact In love with them

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  • Terence_the_viking

    sounds unhealthy

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Feel like licking her sweet lil pussy right? ;-)

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  • la_la_la_la

    Hiya,

    Yes. I've done the story-writing thing many a time.

    Do not, DO NOT show her the stories, or even tell her about them – it'll most likely frighten her to death.

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  • alv1592

    I'm sort of interested to read some of your stories...and, I see nothing wrong with feeling the way you do. She sounds like a nice gal, so I can see why you like her.

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  • Noonesperfect

    She sounds pretty..

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  • iintolovethissite

    you sound like a stalker tbh

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