Is it normal for a friends girlfriend to flirt with you and you like it ?

I have felt this way before many times! And i feel so guilty about it cause its my best friend but you cant help how you feel. And just because you like her flirting with you doesnt mean you like her because everyone likes to flirt. Its completely natural! The best thing to do is to be a good friend and ignore it. Dont flirt back cause its not okayy. But it is okay to like her flirting with u cause ur the only one who knows (: just DONT FLIRT BACKKK!

He is your best friend. You cannot help whether or not you like the flirting, but if you are any kind of a real friend, you cannot act on it, tell her you like it, or flirt back!

Just pretend you don't notice if you cannot bring yourself to stop it.

My friend's gf starts doing that shit too. FFS... but my buddy is less oblivious and seems to me that he doesn't feel like hanging out lately, although i feel awkward too and don't call them that much.

Damn hoe, isn't one dick already enough?

Don't know what I should advise you, certainly don't talk to your friend about that, just keep your distance, man.

"...making sexual comments towards me ( in front of him no less!)"

Maybe she's trying to test just how dense he is...

It's normal that you're getting turned on by that trollop, but don't let your penis think for you.

Your best friend is oblivious to her hanging all over you and hitting on you in front of him..?
Something sounds off.
Either he's really naive, really open, or really doesn't give a crap about her.

If she did that to u then it means that shes not ready for a serious relationship with ur friend.

I said something to him about what she was doing and he said that she was just bubbly. I've had ALOT of girls but this is my friends first gf, I know the difference between bubbly and promiscuous but he still seems to not care and I don't want to say anything to her about it because I don't want her to get mad and make up some bullshit lie about me to piss him off. I just don't understand why this doesn't bother him, today she said "I love you" to me in front of him, I didn't respond and he didn't so much as turn around

Nothing wrong if you like it, only if you act upon it at all.

Yea, shes probably through with him anyway, it sounds like a test to me.

Flirt with BF's bestie and see how he reacts.
>Doesn't get mad, he's too easy and weak.
>Confronts her, on to next test.

I would enjoy it to, just don't try anything.

Of course you like it. Who wouldn't? But you know that it could mess up your friendship. Get a girlfriend of your own and quick before you do something you'll regret.

Alot of girls do this, they are one of two reasons why they do this...

1. They are a true giant slut, they have massive insecurity issues about themselves for whatever reason (Dad didnt show enough attention, both parents are alcoholics, etc...)So they compensate by seeking attention in any way they can get it most of the time the easiest way is to be a giant flirty slut.

2. They just like to play games and seek attention. They get a thrill and kick out of being as flirtatious as possible only to lead it right to the point of no return at which time they then act all confused if you make a move, and they tell their boyfriends just to see the reaction he gives, i.e. "Thats it, I am gonna kick your ass now man, etc". Dont ever let yourself be fooled by women like this, they know EXACTLY what they are doing and even if you play along with it you are giving them the attention they desperately seek.

The best way to handle either one of them is to call them out on their behavior, something like "Wow you are really aggressively flirtatious for someone who is in a relationship!" Make sure to do in front of a bunch of people, preferably a group of friends, with the boyfriend present.

My best friend's on-off girlfriend once had a very frank and sexual conversation with me on the phone at his house (while he was present but apparently not in the room). I knew she liked me as a person (I'm always the first in the group to meet people's new girlfriends because they always like me, and then when they meet the whole group, I'm there as a kind of backup).

But I didn't know she had those kinds of thoughts about me. The worst thing is that the things she was describing were a massive turn-on to me and I was temporarily flustered. The way I dealt with it was to say that I was flattered but that he's my best friend and I couldn't do that to him. I never told him what happened. In retrospect, I still think I did exactly the right thing.

Now he's married to someone else, I do still occasionally wonder about her too.

That is your best friend...Total betrayal of trust. Personally, I believe she is to blame the most due to her being in the relationship and started doing the flirting first, but that does not excuse you of you allowing it to happen.

Your best friend, he is supposed to trust you like family, you should give him reasons to trust you like not letting his girlfriend flirt with you.

I was in a situation not as bad as this, but still pretty bad in my opinion. My best friend's girlfriend admitted that she liked me before she liked him, and that she was hoping to get with me than him before they started going out (I was the one that got them together, my friend wanted a girlfriend). So I was a bit weirded out and said something along the lines of "Well, I don't believe this will happen, he is my best friend and I don't take loyalty so lightly".

She would flirt with me countless times before I stated that, and it lead to him being quite jealous, which made our friendship a bit worse, which is why I had to make it clear to both of them that I didn't want this happening.

Total betrayal of loyaly and trust.

There is a lot more to life than "Pussy". She is could cheat on your best friend with you, and a quick "fuck" could mean an ending to your friendship. Is it worth it?

She's showing little respect for your boyfriend. Try not to get too involved with her. Otherwise, your friend might think that you're the one who's coming on to her. (I know that's not the case, but he's more likely to suspect you than his girlfriend)