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So I have been dating this girl for about a year and every time she thinks something is wrong or 'too right' as she puts it, she tries to end the relationship.
It seems like the better I do, the worse she acts. Like she is trying to force me to dump her. If I treat her like crap, and don't do anything she seems totally happy.
Why do people get back into relationships when one partner keeps breaking it off. It should just take once to decide things are done. Move on.
I agree 100%.
Break up with me and its a one way door....no coming back, no turning back.
I also don't get it when people want to know a "reason" for breaking up...Huh? Why do I need a reason? Am I being held captive or something? What if my reason is not good enough, does that mean I can't break up?
Could it be a control issue? It sounds like when she's confident (when you're 'playing nice'), she exerts control by threatening to dump you...then when you take control (act disinterested etc...) she reins you back in by being submissive.
If that's the case she (or maybe both of you?) don't see each other as equals in the relationship.
Of course, I might be a complete idiot so don't necessarily listen to me. It's just a guess.
Hasn't it occurred to you that it could be a response to something YOU are doing or not doing in the relationship? Especially as this if the fifth one that's ended in the same way?
Remember, if you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always got
What women say and what women actually do are two totally different things. Never EVER listen to what women say. Make your own decisions based on her actions.
Based on your post, this particular women has insecurity issues.
Okay thanks for your honest reply.
Also honestly if a guy treats you like crap sometimes is it the answer?
Is it really bad for a guy to try to be nice all the time?
Um... no I don't being treated bad I'm not sure why I blow up my relationships its more like I get to feeling to vulnerable and push them away. I don't even realize I'm doing it until its done.