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My dad has kicked me out twice now. I've been homeless for about a year. When we live together we always argue over stupid stuff and it's aggrevating to be around him. is it normal for a 60 something year old dad to kick his 20 year old son out twice?
I had a job when he kicked me out the second time. Thing is he made me set up direct deposit to his bank so I couldn't save up for a car or a place, one of the main reasons I couldn't stand living there.
That's very inappropriate. It sounds like he's really Codependent and controlling. It would be one thing for him to ask for some financial help with household expenses but this sounds like something else to me.
By any chance do you have any irresponsible habits like abuse of alcohol or drugs that would prevent you from properly managing your own money?
Depends on what for. If you don't go to college full time or have any form of job, it makes sense. You're not a kid anymore, it's time to man up.
I don't know if your particular situation is normal. For me, however, I feel like that is about the time that a guy SHOULD get out on his own if he can. I think it has to do with psychology mostly. Societal pressure might be an influence as well.
I moved out on my own when I was around 19. Before then, I lived with my dad and we were slowly but surely starting to argue over things (often)... I feel like if I had stayed much longer it would have escalated to fighting and that was the last thing I wanted because my dad and I have almost always been pretty close. Since I moved out our relationship has stayed healthy.