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I'm the 20 yo male and i got messaged by a girl on facebook, i responded since i didn't wanted to be a completly antisocial weirdo, but i latter find out she is 15. She seems ok with this, my bet is on she likes older guys, i seem ok with it and we didn't got into sexy flirting but just nice and decent talk. Should i proceed despite the age difference?
Nope. 15 is just straight up too young for a 20 year old guy. You might be able to rationalize it - like, when she's 20 you'll be 25! Well great, but when you were 17, she was 12...
At this stage, it's too far on the creepy side of the grey area, in my opinion. Definitely not something I would do or recommend. Too young.
It depends.
In USA it would not be considered appropriate.
In most of Europe it would be ok.
In the rest of the World, I don't know.
A lot of people are saying that if you were to date her, it'd be illegal.
But it's not illegal to be in a non-sexual, yet romantic relationship to another human being (with parental consent if a minor) - regardless of the age (depending on where you live).
It only becomes illegal if it becomes sexual while she remains a minor. As long as you don't cross that border, you'll just stay in the hella creepy, yet legal zone.
But ultimately, I'd advise you to stop talking to her. She's not even close to being legal, so I wouldn't risk it. Especially since you're thinking of dating her and that's bound to lead to somewhere you don't want to go.
A.K.A prison.
I may get some hate for this, but I was 20 when I had my first girlfriend and she was 15.
She asked me out and we went to the same high school and her parents liked me so it didn't seem like a big deal.
She was much more mature than me too. I probably had the maturity of a 10 year old when I was 20.
It is normal actually, my friend she is 17 and her boyfriend is 28.. More mature
The safe play would be to just stay friendly with her for now. She's not legal, which leaves the potential for bad things to happen. I'd recommend keeping the option open. Be friends and if she's available when she reaches legal age, then make your move. Although, the simpler option is to completely look elsewhere.
Normal. When she's 20 you are going to be 25. I don't see any harm in that. Only problem is that its gonna take her 5 years to be 20!
Noooooooooo
Wtf do you have in common with a 15 year old girl, creepy cunt?
I wouldn't do it , it's illegal . The whole maturity and right and wrong thing is another debate . She could be highly intelligent and mature for her age , some 15 year old girls are and understand sex fully but .. the moral issue wont get you in trouble it's the legal issues you need to be worried about buddy . She is too young for you as an adult and therefore her parents could press charges and do you want to go to prison for a girl? by the way ... she is probably a decoy trying to set you up > Its probably a cop or it's a company that works with law enforcement like perverted justice or something . I would say forget about it and find someone your own age to fuck or go hire an escort if you are that desperate . one that isn't 15 .
I can't see why not. Legal age of consent is 15 in Sweden, so to me I don´t get why people would start screaming about inappropriate and what not.
She contacted you, if you have things in common go for it!
Which I really don´t get :L Like this law would make a 20 year old female fucking a 17 year old male a criminal :L
It´s not like "age of consent" really means anything because we all mature differently and as long as we don´t have 25 year old creeping after 12-14 year old´s I think we´ll do just fine.
People's sexual attitudes tend to vary by culture. In some cultures, a 14 year old is ready for sex with older men. In others, not even a 20 year old is allowed to have sex.
In Canada, where I live, the age of consent was 14 until 2008, when it was raised to 16. The reason why I believe was because of the internet paving way for sexual predators to get a hold of minors. However, our government acknowledges that teens do experiment, and so they have close in age exemptions for 12-13 year olds to have sex with each other and 14-15 year olds to have sex with anyone no more than 4 years older than them.
No it's not normal.I can't even begin to understand why you would want to date someone who is 15 when you are 20 unless your maturity level is of her age or younger. Either way it's not ok and just plan creepy.
Nothing wrong with talking to her. And she's not that you. If you like each other you should do it, just don't get caught.
Well, I would strongly advice against it. You should try to get into a conversation with her parents and tell them about it. She's in great danger.
Pretty normal for guys to be into teen girls. It's not illegal to date. Give it a shot
No, and I would recommend against it.
A 15 year old needs to be focusing on her education.