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my brother is 27 he still lives with us and he likes to hang out with one of my friends the problem is wer alot younger but he waits for her to come home after school bcuz he doesn't have a job and he takes her places like the mall. I think this is kinda weird but she is cool with it so I dont say nothing.
I love the mentor role with younger people that i like, cause i feel compelled to try to pass any small wisdom i gained to my friends and loved ones.
But there is a line and just be mindful it isnt crossed.
Is it normal for a mammalian male to find a more youthful female as a suitable mate? Yes.
Is it morally acceptable to use your age and the fact that you possess a driver's license to woo a still developing human female? No.
Either your brother is incredibly immature or very simple minded. What could a normal 27 year old have in common with a 14 year old child? What could they possibly have to talk about?
I repeat, what could a normal healthy male of 27 have in common with a child of 14?
well what could you possibly have in common with your wife who is 40 years younger than you?
Not much. And what would a 20 something female want with a 69 yr old?
Find something else to lecture on. You have wisdom to share I'm sure, on this subject you have skeletons in the closet.
Again, just in case you didn't read the above post.
My wife was a college educated adult when I met her. How do you see any comparison with this fellow and this child?
Child, a 14 year old is probably part of the same generation as a 27 year old.
On the other hand, your imaginary wife was only just being born when you turned 42.
I'm proud to say that I have an IQ of 151
That still doesn't mean much, sure it is a child and your wife is technically not, but you still have no room to lecture at all.
It is odd. At 21 years of age, I'd feel weird hanging out with an 18 year old, let alone someone 4 years younger.
Sex.sex sex. The clue is he takes her to the mall aka sex time and he waits for her to get home boyfriend much they are doing the deed. He can go to jail and be a sex offender, But thats non of my business.
If its not a kid you sit, teach, mentor, friends brother or relatives than no.
I don't really see much of a problem if they're just hanging out and having fun platonically or perhaps if he's being kind of a "big brother" to her. That said, I wouldn't trust him with her unsupervised. I would think it's better if her father/mother supervised them together.