Is it normal fiance can't live without me and not in a good way

the longer I stay with him the more codependant and clingy he gets. Since I had our son, its gotten worse.My boyfriend doesn't want me ever leaving the house. I never get a break from our son ever.A fight ensues if I try to go on the internet by myself. I recently made my sister drive an hour out of her way and ruin our plans to go away for a weekend because my bf said he just can't watch our son alone and he needs me and he's afraid my son will get hit by a car because he can't get him out of the street if I don't come home.(my son weighs less than thirty pounds.) my sister was really angry because I literally never see her because he doesn't like her at the house because they don't get along and tries to fight with me and interrupt her constantly whenever she calls .he feels she and other people get in the middle of our relationship. it didn't help that she yelled thanks a lot for ruining everything you win you big jerk!to my bf as he left.

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Comments ( 13 )
  • Short4Words

    Fuck your fiance. And not in the good way.

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  • RoseIsabella

    He sounds like a future abuser, leave him ASAP!

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    • Ellenna

      I reckon he's already an abuser emotionally and it can only get worse

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yep, you got it!

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  • thegypsysailor

    And you are marrying this sicko because? Because you are crazy and want to spend the next how many years in hell?
    I'd get a lawyer RIGHT NOW and get the paperwork necessary for child support going and get out of that house. I have little doubt that a retraining order will follow the child support documents, but that's why you have a lawyer.
    If you two have been together for some time, your state may recognize you as common law married, in which case you can get this cretin to pay for the lawyer and spousal support.
    Run, run as far and as fast as you can from this guy.

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    • Ellenna

      Excellent advice

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  • Ellenna

    Do you want your child to grow up believing it's normal for men to treat women in this way?

    He's a manipulative bully and he has you brainwashed: get some support from friends, family, a women's group or a counseller to get out of there before he totally ruins two lives.

    You deserve better, you really do, surely you don't want to spend the rest of your life afraid of displeasing him? Walk out of this trap he's made for you and your child and build yourself a good life: it won't be easy at first, but it will be worth it for both of you, I promise

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  • noid

    Of course it's not normal.

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  • dick555

    You need to dump him.

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  • NathanScot

    The fuck is this clingy shit shown by ur fiancee.Very immature of him.

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  • briheiwajima

    I just think your all he has and he doesn't trust you enough to go do things on your own you might get hurt or fall for another person he just sounds insecure and want to hold on to you as long as he can. I think your his everything and he would never abuse you.

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    • dytrog

      briheiwajima- I think you are full of shit and he is going to be more than an emotional abuser in the future.

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  • pizzabrowniesushi

    your fiancé sounds really really really weird.

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