Is it normal depressed about being a virgin?

I'm almost 30 and it makes me depressed that I'm a virgin and never had a girlfriend. I feel I like I wasted my best years and I will never be happy. I just find it very difficult to talk to women because I have low confidence so I think everyone will reject me. I don't think I will ever be good enough.

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  • arcticwolf

    It's pretty normal to feel that way. I'm way older than you, and I'm still a virgin. But I have chosen to be a loner. I love women and have had many girlfriends in my life. But I'm in a financial rut, and with the situation I have at home,it is difficult to even find a date. You're still young, and you have the chance to step out and meet girls. You shouldn't be so down on yourself. You don't have to be lonely.
    I would like to help you by recommending a really good book by a Dr. David D. Burns. The book is called: Intimate
    Connections. It's an old book, but a very good one. You can probably find it at your local library. It will really help you discover your true self and all your potential. It has helped many people, and I'm sure it can help you too. This guy has other books out too that can help you. He has a website here: www.feelinggood.com His books have helped me a lot. I hope you'll check it out. Good luck!

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  • xfg12

    Never "had" a girlfriend? Women are not possessions unless you take them by force, my friend.

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    • I fear that might be the only way. I don't have much to offer anyway, but I'm beginning to think that no woman would ever consent to being in a relationship with me.

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      • xfg12

        All you need is a van and duct tape. And information. Which is acquired by stalking this person. Seriously, it's easier than you think. Most people are clueless.

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      • Lonely2

        I have low self esteem and social anxiety as well...it sucks...I gone to counseling and take meds ...it helps but doesnt cure it....

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  • copycat61224

    Hit me up for a fun time ladies (; snap chat is copycat61224 and kik is fractle61224

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    • stop hijacking my thread ya douchebag

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  • IndianaRose

    Nower days the women are the ones flinging there arms around men. Go to jersey n hit up the club scenes youll get girls home every night n theyll ride it.. unless your pickey..

    I heard life starts at 30 you got plenty of time dont worry

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    • I live in Jersey and work in NYC so I see beautiful women all the time. It just makes me feel terrible that I can't even have one. I've never been to clubs they seem too obnoxious.

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      • IndianaRose

        Or even the jersey scene doesnt have to be clubbing

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      • IndianaRose

        Wow see you already at jersey and depends itll take time but you find a diamond in the ruff in jersey club scenes all the time keep positive

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  • thegypsysailor

    If you don't try you will never get a girl friend. Out of a hundred encounters, if you try to make a friend, surely one will find you interesting.
    All you need to be is nice (not wimpy, just nice or maybe kind) and have a good sense of humor. Nature will take care of the rest.

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