Is it normal cant avoid being disturbed about casual sex?

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I grew up catholic so raised with a idea that sex before marriage is bad and women should dress decent any who sells or treats her body like a toy is a whore you know the rest. College and living independently away from family changed me. I still believe in a higher power but I got rid of alot of my religion cause I felt the beliefs were outdated. I am happy being this way. I never had one night stands but I had sex with bfs in actual relationships and I am not guilty about any of that.

But anytime I hear of someone having casual sex if its a male sleeping with two different women in a night or like some friends talked about a college girl who did porn to pay her tuition but took her life because she was shamed by society. I dont know if its true or not but it disturbs me alot and makes my head spin she would sell herself like that. It was wrong by people to slutshame her but I cant help it I think it was wrong she tried doing porn so young. I read once that you can reject a religion but you will never escape all of the culture or beliefs cause some of it is installed deep in your mind. Does this mean I am doomed to think and feel this way about casual sex? Please this is not about what is right or wrong or sex or religion. I am a liberal I dont want to be a person who looks down on anyone for their sex life but I cant change this thinking and it is driving me crazy.

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Based on 29 votes (19 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    You need to stop upsetting yourself about stuff that's none of your business and maybe then you'll get rid of the judgmentalism your early religious brainwashing instilled in you

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    id rather hang round with sluts than religious fuckin freaks

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    • Steve2
      8 years ago

      I'd rather hang around with ANYONE than religious fuckin freaks.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
        8 years ago

        ironic how jesus preferred to hang round with sluts than religious freaks of his day too

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  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    Overcome your brainwashing and delusional upbringing first, then reflect on your thoughts about casual sex and see what you TRULY think.

    I know thinking is discouraged in religion, so it might be a bit new to you.

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    • skilful_soldier
      8 years ago

      You pretend to be smart on the internet all day because you are a fat loser with no friends.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    Honestly I´d say it´s pretty normal to dislike it when people are sleeping around. I at least don´t tie it to a religion. As long as you don´t treat people bad because of your opinions you are fine. /The slutty atheist

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    Thank u! Makes me feel better I am not alone but I would still like to not be so affected by that

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