Is it normal boyfriend hired prostitute in the past

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I found a card of a prostitute massage parlor in my boyfriend's wallet. He said he did hire a girl but that it was way before us. But why does he still have it. Anyways i ripped it up and tossed it.
This guy is the sweetest and most loving guy, i know he truly loves me, but finding that really bothered me. Is it normal he's done that before and that he still had that card. Thanks.

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Jazyritz619

8 years ago

I threw away a Cookie Monster snuggy from some bitch who had a crush on my man from his work. I understand how you feel. Your man knows what he was doing holding on to that card. You either Talk to your boyfriend and tell him to stop with the bullshit and continue on with the relationship or leave him. Just him holding on to that card is sign that your relationship is starting to crumble apart and honey that's just the tip of the iceberg.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  That's just it... he.just started telling me how much he loves me.., we went on a.beautiful trip together, and we were doing what we do and he hugged me clothes and said it like this " i am so in love with you" said it over over in the shower, was just so very loving... now that i think about it more so after i found that. So even thought we semi-talked about it i should bring it up again and.tell him it.bothered me he still had it, just straight up be like" hey i have to be honest about that card it really bothered me you still had that even though it was way before us like you said" that sounds ok? We have history 3 years now but one straight year solid relationship, and weve have had the i love yous said already but on this trip we took it was all really special and beautiful, until that. Bummer huh
  
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  - Jazyritz619
    
    8 years ago
    
    Whatever makes you happy. Last thing I wanna hear is a great, faithful, innocent woman get her heart broken because the boyfriend is too blind to see that. Be careful love.
    
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    - Captain_Flatulitis
      
      8 years ago
      
      GagedandRaped is right, you definitely sound like a self righteous feminist, if not a full on bull dyke. So what he went to a prostitute? So what he kept the card? He's a man and he can do what he wants. Its not a woman's place to be telling a man what he can or cant do. If the OP needs that type of new age symbolically neutered man then she should go out and find one.
      
      I tell you, you fucking feminists you've really done a number on men today. Even the women who don't adhere to that women's lib bullshit still follow you other women with slightly stronger personalities because women in general are just all followers anyway.
      
      When you are 48 and living alone with 8 cats take a long look in the mirror and ask yourself how happy you are with your "liberation".
      
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      - Jazyritz619
        
        8 years ago
        
        You are entitled to your own opinion.
        
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        8 years ago
        
        If you actually try being nice to men and perhaps slightly submissive, because you know biologically programming wise we are the providers and protectors, you may surprise yourself with the positive results.
        
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sexysonofsam

8 years ago

Ask him what in particular he liked about the prostitute he visited, ask him to give you as much detail about the whole event as possible and pay attention to what he tells you!

Then give it a couple of days and re-enact the whole scenario for him one night as a surprise, do everything that a prostitute will do and when you are finished getting his load blown ask him to "Pay" you...

I am sure that he will love you even more for being his own little whore!

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donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

8 years ago

yalld be out on the fuckin curb

id be happy to pay the cab to the bus station and heres 100 bucks now fuck off you sneaky pryin spyin duplicitous cunt

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- ______________
  
  8 years ago
  
  I don't know whether you're being serious or not, but a relationship does not simply consist of two seperate individuals. If he fucked a whore in the past she has every right to know about, in fact he should have told her before even engaging a relationship.
  
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  - donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    
    8 years ago
    
    what i done in the past with myall peckers myalls bidness and nobody elses
    
    if im slippin a ring on a woman maybe well talk and meanwhile i aint doin nothin with nobody else cept yall dear bride
    
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green_boogers

8 years ago

Ask him what the prostitute did that was so good. Make sure you can do it better.

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Short4Words

8 years ago

Honey. We're guys. We still have our library cards, doesn't mean we still use them.

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1manband

8 years ago

I was with someone who was never in the mood and if she wasn't on top when we did I had to fuck slower than snail... it was before the wide spread use of the internet when I was in her relasionship! So I started going downstairs after She had gone to sleep and did what she couldnt be botherd to! She started saying after a while you don't ask for sex anymore with disapointment in her eyes as if she enjoyed making me suffer! And I had not long since started a new job when a lad was telling me about massage parlours. I thought fuck it and went... there was only one girl on and I told her I was a virgin to this and she got excited that I was a first timer... anyway, I smashed the life out of it, I banged all those months of frustration out, it was gooood!! I could tell she didn't want me to stop but I only had 30mins, and told me to cum! And me and that fridgid bore split soon after...the moral of the story is, you can't feed a lion lettuce!!!

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Crafty

8 years ago

As a guy it's normal. Unfortunately were not made to be monogamous. A lot of those massage parlors offer hand jobs . Not that that's a blessing but guys are horny . Maybe talk to him and get a better understanding on his thoughts so you can determine if This is something he still craves .

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8 years ago

Shit, I don't understand what it is with my fellow guys these days. It's all about fucking, and it makes you kool. I'd rather deviate from that societal norm and keep my number of different sex partners to a minimum, ideally one. In the meantime, wanking is more than sufficient to keep the sexual desire in check, as opposed to spending your money on some whore you'll never give a fuck about.

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- derpyderp
  
  8 years ago
  
  Good attitude. Rare these days.
  
  Be warned that to The Gypsy Sailor you are now forever a virgin
  
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Miezekatz

8 years ago

no matter what a woman does or not, many sick guys like to fuck other girls, go to prostitutes, wank all day or whatever - and then women exoect to have a "normal" relationship with a man.....

and then, their excuse is: I am just a NORMAL man -
hahaaaahaaaaaa.

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thegypsysailor

8 years ago

Have you ripped up all the pictures of your exes and taken any others down from facebook the instant you and this guy became a 'couple'?

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mypenisinyourmouth

8 years ago

I found some money in my pocket the other day. It must have been there for a few years. Pockets tend to do that

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- Miezekatz
  
  8 years ago
  
  what a decent name :-) - I think I rather eat a piece of shit instead....
  
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  - mypenisinyourmouth
    
    8 years ago
    
    And what exactly is wrong with my name? You sure enjoy jumping to conclusions. I guess it's what is to be expected from somebody who eats shit (:
    
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dindu_nuffin

8 years ago

Why did you rip up his card, that was his favorite thing to masturbate to, his true desire. You are a cruel person. If you really loved him you would want him to be happy and accept him for who he is, not rip up his best memories.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Your right in.some.way. if that's what he likes let.him have it... cool thanks
  
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  - dindu_nuffin
    
    8 years ago
    
    Exactly. And if it makes you uncomfortable to know that he liked the prostitute more than you, then maybe you should try to do a better job of exciting him so that one day you will know without a doubt that he prefers you over anything else
    
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