Is it normal boyfriend doesn't like to share his feelings gets mad when i pry

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he cleans he cooks he is good looking and a good lover. he cares about my feeling a lot and leaves little cards for me on the table.but he never talks or wants to share his intermost feelings with me at all.he has almost no friends and spends his free time making model cars and reading. my girlfriends think I should break into his apartment and look through his stuff while he is sleeping. I told them no this is why they are single. any thoughts.

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  • Spankz
    9 years ago

    Do not snoop and do not pry. My boyfriend was the exact same way when we first started dating. He was extremely closed in and didn't share much. However, as our relationship evolved so did he. It took me 4 years to get where I am now, but I am so glad I was patient, because he is one of the most amazing people I have ever met.

    Patience is a virtue when it comes to some men. There are certain circumstances that men go through when they are younger that makes them put up walls; whether it be bullying or simply the stigma that men aren't "allowed" to be emotional or share their feelings. If you wait and gain more and more of his trust there is no doubt in my mind he will open up to you and share his feelings with you.

    If you can't wait and it is really important to you, then tell him the importance of good communication. But, you might not like the answer your receive.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    why cant you just chill a bit and enjoy your boyfriend , some people dont want to go over their feelings and stuff

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    If you are looking to have a long-term relationship with someone both must open up and let the other person in.

    The issue could be that he is afraid you would think less of him if he lets you in to see his doubts and his fears a'or maybe he is used to withholding them and he is not that interested in letting it out.

    My boyfriend has a slight issue with talking when things are up with him but we are getting better and better at it but I still don't think he's comfortable relying on me and that is fine with me- I have no need nor desire to rush him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Do not snoop through his stuff and stop prying. Some men do not like talking about their feelings. It is uncomfortable and you may open something that was not a good idea.

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    Too good to be true?
    You should just enjoy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I can understand your curiosity, but don't snoop through I his things. I would try to explain how important good communication is if I were you.

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