Iin: bf puts no effort into relationship but will with other women?
My boyfriend of two years spends all free time watching TV and sleeping. (It didn't use to be this way). A few months ago I brought up that couples need to do things occasionally together to keep the relationship from growing stale. He counters that he's exhausted from work and I let him be and get involved in my own things to the point where we barely speak anymore. He gives no sign he's interested in me unless it's booty time or we're talking about HIM. I am sick of watching Pawn Stars. Not even a thank you when I cook and hand him a plate in front of the TV. Though he says "I love you," (with no action to support this claim, except that he pays the house note so I should be grateful for that--and I am, but it's his way of shutting me off), It got to the point where I just go into another room to be away from the noise of his TV shows. This week, he's towing a woman's car from work who broke down in a "boo hoo" that she couldn't afford repairs and he's fixing her car. Though I understand helping someone out, I feel incredibly hurt that he'll work hours on her car, but only sleep/watch TV with me. I feel completely taken for granted.
I decided to be honest -- when he phoned, I told him I was really hurt that he would spend hours and hours fixing another woman's car when he will not get off the couch when with me. He called me CRAZY that I would think that and DON'T COME OVER THEN and hung up on me. I am beginning to believe he suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder and whatever, if he really cared about me, to express that I felt hurt should be addressed, not hung up on.
I suppose all the red flags are there and really I know the answer, but ... thoughts?