Is it normal 2b an alpha-type male except in the bedroom

Outside of sexual situations, I am an alpha male. Professionally, I'm in charge, almost always get what I want, am respected and successful. But, in sexual situations I'm just the opposite. I'm submissive, easily turned on by a dominant partner, female or male. I'm very turned-on by being humiliated about my small dick and/or being exhibited in a public or semi-public place. I'm expert orally with a woman and a man. And, to be honest I like being fucked by a large hard cock or strap-on. Is it normal?