Is it normal aunt and dad having an affair how to tell our mom

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so we WERE on this really awesome vacation in Jamaica with my aunt her husband my mom and dad and my brother.

Everything was going great until memorial day. I caught my dad and aunt having sex on the beach. I thought it was a bad dream but my brother also saw them.Then I heard them trashing my mom one day by the pool. My mom has no clue. My mom can be really overbearing and has a little bit of a temper sometimes but is really loving and generous too.She spoils everybody and especially my dad.

She does not deserve this. I think it is pretty shitty they would do this especially my aunt.My mom found my aunt a job because my aunt gets fired a lot. My dad has cheated on her before and mom is gonna be devastated. My dad is offering to give my brother a bunch of money if we don't tell.

My aunt tried to explain why she is doing this to my mom,which made me more disgusted.We are 17 and 18 and what if my mom believes my aunt and dad instead of me?My mom keeps asking us why my brother and I seem a little down. The whole thing is just so fucked up.

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  • theotherblonde
    7 years ago

    wow your dad and aunt are real assholes.Maybe there is a way your mom can find out without implicating yourselves.

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  • Hopefully
    7 years ago

    Sorry to hear such a shitty thing happen to your mom. But telling the truth is always the option I'd take, no matter how terrible it is. Talk to her sincerely and tell her what is going on. Ask your brother to support you too, so she knows that you weren't the only one who saw or heard the horrible things. She can decide on what to do later on.

    In the event that she won't believe you, she'd still be aware of the cheating, lying skanks that surrounds her. It may take a while before she accepts it.

    Be there for your mom. Always. After all that shit blows, she'll remember the ones who's stuck with her from day one, and she'll be eternally grateful.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Blackmail them for cash, cars and jewelry.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Focus on getting into college/university, and distancing yourself from the family drama.

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  • finn
    7 years ago

    Let it play out and enjoy Jamaica. My guess is your mom does have a clue because a wife always knows.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Its none of your business stay out of it no 1 will thank you for blowing the whistle not even your mom.

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  • Me_1226
    7 years ago

    Just don't. That's a marital issue that has nothing to do with you as their child.

    It will eventually come to light; believe me it will. I had a very similar situation happened to me and I came to find out almost 12 years later.

    Like some of the others have said, just be there for your mom whom sadly is the one who's going to get the worst part of all this fucking chaos.

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  • Curious-trans
    7 years ago

    How much money?

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  • klebo
    7 years ago

    I agree with a couple of viewers, let it play it self out,sometimes it just a thing that's fun and exciting than fizzles out and chances are your mom might know,some way or reason seems like woman are in tune to this and pick up on it and maybe she is just waiting for it to fizzle out between the two of them

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