Is it normal and okaty if guys want space after an argument?

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Not ALL guys need space but those types who do, why do you need space after a fight or argument w your gf? and how long is it enough til you're ready to talk to her again? and when you're ready to talk to her again, how do you talk to her? do you talk to her like everythings fine cause you got everything off your chest or do you tell her you're ready to talk about it and get it over with?

Unfortunately, my guy is like that. He doesn't like to argue and stays quiet and prefers to not talk until he's over it. The longest he's taken was like 4 days. I understand he needs space, so do I, but for me and I don't know about other girls but it takes just about one day to relax and start talking again.

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  • Shackleford96
    9 years ago

    Yes it's normal. Maybe he's got more important shit to be thinking about right now. Maybe his vehicle is on the verge of being broke down. Maybe he's worried about where he's going to be living in a few months. Maybe he's worried about his brother, his sister, his mother. It could be anything, maybe he just needs some space. Just let him be for a while. He'll talk when he's ready.

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  • dirtybirdy
    9 years ago

    I could go eons without talking to people. It's hard to explain, but some people are just like that.

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    • Bluey_neilo
      9 years ago

      Yes, it's quite easy once you tolerate boredom and awaken your imagination.

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    Until I don't feel like killing her anymore, obviously.

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