Iin2always be attracted to people who are more monogamous than you

I've been in relationships pretty much ever since the age of 16.

I was with my first serious partner from 16-21 (4.5 years!!) and got with my current partner a week after my first one and I split up.

We'll have been together for 2 years in December and - apparently - this is the longest relationship he's ever been in.

One thing both partners have in common is that sex is less important for them than it is for me and believe in monogamy far more strongly than I do.

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  • TXLSA

    BlueAlice
    There some people (me included) that are not genetically wired to be monogamist. Our sexual mind always wonders to someone else while in a relationship. At a very young age I also thought I was gay since I really liked dating 3 different guys
    Then once I had a sexual experience with a female I knew I would always like both
    And I still do
    So much more to tell if you care to know more write to this email; a2littlesecrets at yahoo
    Otherwise have fun

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  • TheJackel

    Wow. Confusing love cycle. I thought being a single male was tough.

    Bisexual female has a whole other dimension of combinations to go with it. Lol.

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  • TXLSA

    Is interesting that after reading your post it's unclear if you are a male or female and perhaps bisexual. Either case it doesn't matter. If monogamy doesnt matter to you why bother to be in a relationship. Just have fun if sex is more important to you.

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    • I'm female and bisexual, although I've only just woken up to the sexual possibilities that (SOME) men have.

      Right up until I met my current partner, I was absolutely convinced I was a lesbian and I'd try to make myself only like one sex if I liked someone of the other.

      What I mean is: If I was crushing on a girl, I'd force myself to only like guys. If I was crushing on a guy, I'd force myself to only like girls.
      Don't ask, lulz.

      In answer to your question, I'm not too sure, although I have always "liked" the person "in that way" [how I hate the phrase; it's so childish-sounding!].

      I know for sure that I plan on being single for a LONG time after my current relationship ends (if it ever does).

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  • den411

    Your an out of control whore that wants to live a normal life. There are entire fields of doctors waiting for you to come into their office. I love sex and am an addict and had real problems here with this.

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