Is it normal a girl can orgasm by touching herself but not when shes fingered

There's this girl I know and we had a heart to heart the other day. She said that her boyfriend can't make her have a great orgasm but when she touches herself she gets a crazy orgasm and squirts sometimes. Does that mean her boyfriend sucks at fingering?
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  • pixie_dust

    that is the most commom thing, to need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm

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  • If he's just fingering and not touching the clitoris, it's normal for quite a lot of females.

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  • picflirt

    yes its normal, it simply called she knows best what works for her. if her boyfriend can't do that for her, what she needs to do is SHOW him how do do what she wants needs. There's also the relaxation factor. Some women(and guys too) can only orgasm on a solo basis just because of comfort and security levels they have.

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  • DandyElfman

    It probobly means you are doing it wrong. If you are not a women you probobly have no idea what you are doing. Try watching another female pleasure herself and maybe try that on your lady friend. Of course it is since she knows what she wants you dont. Yes you do suck at fingering or she just faked her orgasms.

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  • 41ph4m413

    hes doing it wrong ive never had that problem

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  • dom180

    Yep. There are plenty of guys who don't orgasm from handjobs, so I can't see why it wouldn't work the other way around. It's probably just a technique thing.

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