Is it normal a boy from middle east move to western or middle europe?

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i have a long distance relationship. i am from Prague, Czech republic and he is from Turkey.
I am finishing my first year in university and he is a waiter. I was thinking about going to study to Istanbul when i finish my bachelor degree for the master degree if i will still want to study. but there are still 2 years to go.

that is a long time and i was trying at least to go therefor the summer, but i don't get work permission and since he works, i can't go there without having a job. i don't have the money for being there only in vacation for 3 months.

so i really want to be with him. and mine are not just words i'd do anything to be with him. i don't want to push him into a corner, or anything. but i would like him to come here to work. or to Germany (he knows good german and his brother lives there) or somewhere a litlle nearer, that we could afford to see each other more often.

i haven't told him this - but i have been looking for jobs that he could apply for.. just to see if there is a chance for him to work here or Germany (job also for me there).. i will talk to him, i wanted to talk about that when we see each other or at least by a video call, right now he has lot of work, so there was no time to talk about that.

i wouldn't want him to do anything he doesn't want to. he said a few times he would move.. i just didn't know what would come. now i am really confused.

so if there is any boy from middle east - would you move? what do you think about that?

yes 11
no 5
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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    I moved once for a girl, it wasn't to another country, but I live in a biiiig country, so moving from the east to the west was about 3000 miles. Think that's about the distance he'll have to travel from Turkey.

    Anyway, my story doesn't have a happy ending, so I won't do it again because it's stupid. But I suppose it's fun to try it once -for the adventure, for the travel, for cheking out how things work in places you'll never get around otherwise.

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  • PalestinianGuy
    11 years ago

    I'm Middle Eastern, anyway to be honest I wouldn't move for love, but maybe for a better job, oh and btw it's really hard to leave Turkey.
    So my advice is let him search for a job first then he can decide if he wants to leave or not, also is it temporarily or permanent?

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    I live in a completely different part of the world from you so I don't know how much my advice is.

    I up and moved several hundred miles for a girl, and am still living and working in the city I moved to for her. I don't regret it at all though because I have built quite a nice life for myself here.

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