Is it normal 2 worry about upsetting people after living with a angry person

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So i moved out of my parent's house away from my dad like 3 weeks ago.It is so nice to not have to worry about when he is going to go off. I am no longer tingling all over or crying myself to sleep every night.and it is so nice to put whatever I want on my sub without being yelled at and not have to alphabetize the cans in the cupboard.
But I feel afraid everyone's is mad at me all the time.I cry too much and laugh too little.Also, I say sorry way too much which pisses some people off. I thought my boss hated me too until I got employee of the month and I found out her mom just died. Like if a friend doesn't contact me for a couple weeks I panic because I think they must hate me.If someone looks mad I always think o god, what did I do now.Does this ever really go away or am I a freak.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    As you build your own life, you should quickly gain self confidence and strength. Moving out was a good first step, now allow yourself the pleasure of not living under all that pressure.
    Most people are a bit too self involved to be upset by something you think you might have said or done, to even notice. Relax, it's cool. Dad and all that ugliness are behind you now.

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    • flyingnostalgia
      8 years ago

      Why do you change colors so often?

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        I'm a moody little bitch.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I think it's normal for someone suffering from PTSD as a result of growing up in an abusive home.

    Please check out this website:
    http://www.adultchildren.org/

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