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I'm a girl and I'm romantically attracted to guys but sexually attracted to girls. So I could date a guy but I couldn't have sex with him, and I could have sex with a girl but not date a girl. Which really sucks. Is it likely that I'll find a guy who is okay to not have sex, or will I just have to pretend I like sex with a guy when actually I don't?
I think this is why a lot of people have double lives, like being married but having an affair with the opposite sex on the side. I didn't know this was possible. Interesting.
That would be difficult. The term for that would be homosexual heteroromantic. Sexuality and romanticism are on different spectrums and when they don't match it can cause a lot of problems for the person.
Your best bet is to find an asexual/heteroromantic man, which is extremely rare. The woman shouldn't be as hard to find because even if they are in a relationship with a guy, there are lots of men who don't care if their girlfriend does sexual activities with other women.
Same here. But my romantic love for men goes as far as to be willing to do anything to make them happy, including sex. I have no interest in sex on it's own, but if I loved the guy enough and he wanted it, I would do it just for him.
You are a lezbo in denial of your true feelings. Try to have sex with women. You can slowly develop a connection from there.
Roughly how old are you? 20s? I think your best course of action depends on your personality and how you feel about your family and reputation. One possibility would be to try swinging-- have sex with men and women at the same time. But that is a chaotic path and will probably not lead to LTRs.
I also wonder if you were abused when very young? That might explain some things... If you think that is at all possible then therapy might lead to a happier life.
Normal and I relate. Im very sexually attracted to women, but women drive me absolutely insane when ive been in relationships with them. Im more compatible with men when it comes to a real long-term relationship but im super bored with men sexually, their male bodies bore me, nothing about it is exciting. But then I have these random out of the blue days where I actually want to have sex with my boyfriend.