Is it normal ''maybe'' pisses me off?

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When I ask a woman out I'm prepared for either a yes or a no but when I get a, I need time to think, or I don't know let's see, or any other form of maybe it pisses me off.

I don't understand why I feel this way, getting rejected has never bothered me much, I can shrug off a rejection without any issue but when I get a maybe it annoys the hell out of me.

I don't know why it bother's me so much It's not like I put my life on hold for a maybe. But it annoys the shit out of me, If I haven't gotten an answer within a day or two I gets so pissed that I don't even want to date the girl anymore.

It's weird to me though because like I said getting rejected doesn't phase me much, but getting a maybe pisses me off IIN?

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    It will piss you off less when you understand that women are naturally risk-averse.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Guys say maybe too. Lots of people say maybe, because they're afraid to say no for whatever reason.

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    • you_go_glen_coco
      7 years ago

      Even Carly Rae Jepson says maybe

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Hey, I just met you...

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      Damn it, I'm sorry I had a nice long in depth response, but my cell phone ate it. I hate it when when that happens.

      :-(

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        7 years ago

        it's ok technology hates me too

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Riffraffy is right on this one, relationship-wise.

    Maybe can have a lot of different meanings depending on the actions that follows. For example, if she's still talking to you regularly after saying maybe and seems into you (i.e. sitting close, doesn't mind you contacting her, etc), she simply wanted to get to know you better before diving in. Or if she says maybe then starts to distance herself, then that's her trying to "politely" reject you.

    In my personal experience, I turned into a maybe kind of girl after my emotionally abusive relationship. I became more cautious, and full of doubts. Thankfully, the guy (current boyfriend) I have a huge crush on said I was worth the wait. I'm glad he was so patient back then, but now that look back on that "maybe" I realize it was unnecessary; because the way we always talked everyday, flirt, and more, I knew I wanted him, but my fear was in the way.

    You're not wrong for getting annoyed at maybes, but try to look pass it if you can to see if there's something more.

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  • Curious-trans
    7 years ago

    Maybe baby

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