Iim that i am so bad getting a girl around?

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Is it normal that I'm so confused about getting a girl around? All the boys around me just seem to be pretty good at it.

I'm an teenager and this might be a typical teenager problem but I just don't understand the step from meeting behind the house and kissing the girl. What do I have to do? I can't believe in just kissing her because I always feel like kind of making her feel uncomfortable or something when I attempt something. I don't want to do anything to her which might make her feel uncomfortable so I don't try to take risks like kissing a girl, you know?

I have to announce that I'm an introvert and that I'm a romantic.

So what do you think? Am I just coward?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    So, in your mind, only guys want to kiss, hug and fuck? Get a grip, kid. If the female of the species didn't like fucking around with the male of the species, there wouldn't be much of a species. Girls are not fragile flowers to be treated like delicate stemware. They are creatures with needs and desires just like men and you only need to find a way to get them interested enough in you personally, to enjoy the fruits of those desires.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    I can't tell u how many times that formula worked for me when I was in school.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Get her alone at your place late at night, That's the fist step, the most important one invite her to come hang out and watch a movie or get stoned or have a drink. Then spit ur game and make out or whatever and just let ur hands wander. Pay attention to her reactions very closely. If she tenses up or brings her knees together when you touch her leg. Or if she tilts her head toward you when I try to kiss her neck. Or if she is just being a 'dead fish' and just sitting there waiting for you to finish, she probably isn't into it. And unless she is really naive or stupid she wouldn't have come over there In the first place just to have to turn you down.

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  • Aliceee93
    9 years ago

    Just be yourself :) Do what you think, if it scares the girl away, then its a mistake made and a lesson learnt.
    We cant tell you what to do, and if you over think the whole situation then it will come and you'll completely screw up.

    P.s Girls like diamonds :)

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