Iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. i'm in love with my son.

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In a non sexual way, I am 1000% in love with my son and I am a single mother. I'm quite attractive but do not even want to date despite my many options. My heart is with my son. I am in love with him and just want it to be us until he gets older and runs off into the world to get married or something. I don't care about other relationships and just want my gorgeous son.

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  • seekelp
    9 years ago | pl

    "In a non sexual way"

    I don't believe you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I think people may misinterpret this. As somebody who doesn't recognize the different types of love I understand what you are saying. You love your son and don't see him in a sexual way. That is very normal. I respect you put him first and do not need a relationship. More single parents should be this way.
    I think most people reading your post will think into things too much even though you said you don't have sexual feelings for him.
    Most people make emotions more complicated than they should be

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    • disthing
      9 years ago

      Most people make a distinction between loving your child, and being in love with your child.

      This sounds to me like she has potentially unhealthy feelings towards her son, especially since she felt the need to post here - presumably because she thinks the kind of love she feels isn't the usual maternal bond.

      My concerns are that her relationship with her son could become difficult or odd; she might jealously guard him, shun potential romance with adult partners because in her mind she has the perfect partner, she might expect displays of affection beyond the usual familial interaction, she might behave romantically and expect reciprocation...

      That's the impression I got from this post. She is 'in love' with her son '1000%', which suggests incestuous feelings (albeit non-sexual).
      Read: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_incest

      But hey, maybe she's worded herself in a misleading way...

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      • modernism
        9 years ago

        *slow clap*

        Couldn't have said it better myself.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        9 years ago

        Stupid. Psychological mumbojumbo is just that. There is no sexual feelings and I dont feel guilt. He loves me just as much as I do him and he is old enough to know whats up. We are a team, eachothers anchor and I prefer to keep it that way until he is off on his own. No other man can compare to the bond we have and I dont need sex or penises to be happy.

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        • disthing
          9 years ago

          It doesn't have to be sexual to be inappropriate.

          You should be able to distinguish between being in love with someone and loving someone in a maternal/familial way.

          The fact that you don't seem to be able to, could be a worrying sign.

          Of course, you could just be trolling, or very bad at conveying what you actually mean...

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Not good.

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    • disthing
      9 years ago

      Agreed - to me this seems like covert incest:
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_incest

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      I think op wrote this in a way that most people would take out of context.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Touché. I see and respect what you're saying. I just OP doesn't try to clip his wings when he gets older.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Good for you. If more single parents focused on their kids instead of trying to get laid or string along boyfriends the world would be a better place.
    Maybe when your son is grown you will want another man but for now he should be your main focus.

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  • PaulKulea
    9 years ago

    You want to have sex with your son .... do it ... only live once ..... what a young man wants most is to make love to his mother. .. I know ... I'm in love with my mom .... and dream suck her tits and pump my penis into her crotch ... I have 18 and my mom is a beautiful female of 48 years. He loved that old lustful.

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  • caro29
    9 years ago

    There is a vast difference between loving your child and being in love with your child. You "just want your gorgeous son".You really think that anyone is going to believe you have no sexual feelings towards him? You need professional help. Even if there is no sexual relationship, you're attachment to your son is inappropriate and unhealthy. No woman is going to want a man with such a creepy/close connection to his mother. You are going to turn him into a codependent freak. This is NOT normal.

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  • LizardSkin
    9 years ago

    That poor kid.

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