Iii i don't care if i die a virgin?

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What the title says - I just don't care that much. I've never really liked anyone enough to have sex with them, and whenever I hear my friends talk about their dates or their relationship woes, I just can't help but think about how drained I would be if I were in their shoes. I just don't know how people find it all so worthwhile. I don't think it's a matter of "finding the right person" or "being a late bloomer" either; I'm pushing 30!

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    Do you identify as asexual or aromantic? If you’re not sure this website has a lot of useful information in its FAQ sections:

    https://www.asexuality.org/

    I see some other comments encouraging you to try sex for the sake of trying it which is a terrible idea. Regardless of your sexuality, if you don’t want to have sex don’t. If you’re ready you will know and if you never want to that too is valid.

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  • Mauifun808808
    2 years ago

    It's very Normal in my opinion. I didn't lose my Virginity till I was 26. I'm in my 40's now and haven't had SEX in 2 yrs. My opinion is it's only Sex and what comes with that is emotions and Drama. My ex Girlfriend and I only had had SEX once a month. I'm just not that into it.Thats probably why she left me. If I get aroused I masturbate.

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  • Irizu3748392746483938
    2 years ago

    Normal for sure.

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  • Tinybird
    2 years ago

    I've never liked anyone enough to have sex with them or even kiss them either and I'm 24 and I feel depressed about it thinking I'll never find someone I like so I have imaginary husband/boyfriends

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    • Mauifun808808
      2 years ago

      I'm in the same boat as you. I can't find anyone that has similar interests as me. I'm depressed also cause my girlfriend died 2 yrs ago. I'm just not willing to try and find someone else again because it's So MUCH WORK.Keep your Head up you will find someone it just happens sometimes out of nowhere.

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  • bbrown95
    2 years ago

    I feel the same. It is not a priority to me at all and I just don't care about it. I feel that relationships (for me) are more trouble than they're worth as well.

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  • jrbsportz
    2 years ago

    Well don't know if you are male or female or where you from,but sex is fun relaxing and releases stress. So you might want to rethink and try it more then once cause itnevet the same!!! Just saying

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    • Irizu3748392746483938
      2 years ago

      Maybe for you but not for everyone I thought you idiots knew this by now.

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet
    2 years ago

    Me either (to late for me though). I was 20 (really 19 & 11 & a half months, might as well have been 20) when I tried it. Got bored about 4 minutes into it, pushed her off me & walked out without saying a word. By far the most uncomfortable situation i've ever been in in my life.

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    • litelander8
      2 years ago

      Sounds like it was worse for her.

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      • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet
        2 years ago

        Probably, I don't tend to be good at things I don't enjoy doing.

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  • ZREBELX
    2 years ago

    Well, sex is like anything else, unless you try it, you'll never know if it is something you like. As disgusting as sex is, it is quite nice, but not for everyone.

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  • Mini69
    2 years ago

    Sometimes it’s about the destination not the vehicle. If you never try something how will you know you don’t particularly like it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      would you say the same about fucking an octopus?

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      • Mini69
        2 years ago

        There is a huge difference between doing something natural and normal, like fucking another human being, to doing something unnatural like fucking an octopus. Apart from that I would be concerned about what harm could come to me if I fucked a sea creature.

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  • sweetone89
    2 years ago

    I was 30 when I lost my virginity, also to another 'late' virginity loser. He was 34. And he wasn't good. Find someone expereinced, I'm sure sex will get better. And the single lifestyle I like...no drama.

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