Ignoring bestfriends for the sake of love?

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Ever since my bestfriend found her so-called "soul mate" and everything she does gets on my nerves.. I'm not jealous or anything. But, what really disturbs me is how she spills her anger over us when she's in a bad mood apparently cos her bf did something stupid that got her out of her mind. We could put up with this for almost 6 months now. But lately, she has become very sensitive towards anything we do or say. She doesn't listen to us and always thinks that HE'S ALL THAT .. I don't want to dwell over it, I just want to know if this is normal? or does she need some sort of advice?

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  • CopperU2
    11 years ago

    I was going to reply but I think m 3 yrs late for tat .So, I hope everything is fine with ur bestfren :D

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    • 4w04se
      11 years ago

      Well thanks! :) We are still friends.. but you know once something changed, it just remains that way. So we're friends still but I keep the distance.

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  • boys-are-toys
    13 years ago

    It's just a stage i think..but maybe she does just need someone to talk to and just listen to her

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  • cgirl123456
    14 years ago

    Hmmm, I had a friend in high school who was obsessed with her boyfriend, and she felt like he was the most important thing in her life. Also, my current sister tends to take her anger out on the family because she has a mean boyfriend. In both instances, these women were negatively impacted by their boyfriends. Instead of offering mutual support, the relationships turned into semi-obsession. I doubt there's anything you can do to stop it, but it doesn't sound like she's in a normal relationship.

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    • 4w04se
      14 years ago

      she was unsure about it for some time. But, seems that they fight alot and they are ok with it. She tells me that they are very different.. I wonder how they deal with eachother .. they're still together though

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    it's normal man.

    i have a best friend too, ever since he has a girl, he's sort not hanging out with me that much

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