If your wife/husband developed an illness

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If your wife/husband developed a lifelong illness that affected their ability to have sex, would you stay?

I am female and I would stay with little to no sex 15
I am female and I would stay if I could get sex outside the marriage 5
I am male and I would stay with little to no sex 17
I am male and I would stay if I could get sex outside the marriage 1
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  • jeebley
    10 years ago

    If the answer was no, I wouldn't have married in the first place.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Yes, of course... But, only as long as it was involuntary.

    It's a whole different can of worms if they willingly withhold sex when they are perfectly capable. That would feel like rejection, which is not cool in a marriage.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    Probably. I can do it myself just fine. I *love* sex, but I also love my partner and if I'm so invested in them that we are married, leaving them for such reasons would not be possible for me.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    Can I still get blow jobs?

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    • CozmoWank
      10 years ago

      That needs to be put in the vows.

      "For better or worse, sickness and in health, rich or for poor, but no blowjobs & I'm outta here."

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "You still here?"

    ...Waits for the onslaught.

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  • JaxX
    10 years ago

    look, I don't know what illness stops your privates, mouth, and anus from working but if it happened ill stick around because that's what marriage means. plus, if all that stuff stopped you would be dead soon anyway. :D joking joking

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I sure hope my gf would answer "I am female and I would stay with little to no sex". My "junk" is supposed to stop working one of these days, and it would be nice if she hung around anyway. We'll see.

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  • forever_anon
    10 years ago

    I'd probably be a very difficult person to get along with, but, yes, I think I could manage.

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