If your friend started being mean would you still be their friend ?
| don't know | 64 | |
| yes | 55 | |
| no | 165 | |
| maybe | 157 |
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| don't know | 64 | |
| yes | 55 | |
| no | 165 | |
| maybe | 157 |
I've actually had this happen to me :/ My best friend had started hanging around the bitches in school and started talking shit behind my back so I asked her about it, and the look on her face was answer enough, so I looked at her like she was stupid and told her, "Well go ahead and hang out with all your new fake friends, but don't come crying back to me when they stop talking to you because they realize all the annoying shit you do." Then i walked away with my head held high. It hurt, but she obviously didn't deserve my friendship if thats what she's gonna do.
I would talk to them about it first. Then make my decision.
I would ask them why they're acting the way they're acting, then If they say that they'll change, I'll give them a chance. If they don't change, toodles!
Hey, listen. A real friend is someone who never turns their back, who is there for you always, no matter what. If you always had doubts about them, they probably aren't a real friend. I'm really sorry. If they've always been like this, do you really want to stay with them?
However, everyone has bad days, and friends do stay together through thick and thin, and that includes fights. So if he/she is just going through a phase, stick with them. It might turn out all right.
'Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.'
It all depends. This poll is very vague. It depends on how close a friend, why they were being mean etc... If a best friend quit smoking and starting being mean I would still be their friend to see them through this difficult time. If a not-so-close friend started being mean to me for no reason I would dump their ass.
People have bad days; so if they are being abnormally rude, then I ignore it or give them a raised eyebrow. If being an asshole is a normal part of their personality, then I have better things to do with my time than be their friend.
What do you mean "mean", like them saying "shut the f^^^ up, everyone hates you" mean? or them doing something to impress other friends that people forget after some laughs?
If first one, no.
If second one, who cares yes.
If my friend started being mean to me, I would double the meanness and make their life a living hell.
Probably. I'd tell him directly that he is being a dick. He could even get a punch if he takes it too far XD
I had a Bestfriend once, from Kindergarten. Her name was Madison. We shared our secrets, deepest deepest secrets, we sat on the bus together, and we had the same crush.Until one day, she moved away, i was devistated. Ever since she's left, ive never found a friend like her again.
i'd give them some time - theyre probably just going through a tough time or something. After all, I wouldnt become friends with him if i didnt know he was a genuinely nice person.
Shit happens, people's moods change depending on their situations... I would want someone to stick with me through that, and I would do the same for any of my friends.
Yeah, I would stay friends with them. If they just become a jackass for no reason, I would put my foot down if they were mean to me or whatever, but I wouldn't abandon them.
in odd girl out, loved it when Vanessa told Stacy , kind of wish she slammed Nikki against a locker,