If your friend started being mean would you still be their friend ?

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yes 55
no 165
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  • Ms.Caffinated

    I've actually had this happen to me :/ My best friend had started hanging around the bitches in school and started talking shit behind my back so I asked her about it, and the look on her face was answer enough, so I looked at her like she was stupid and told her, "Well go ahead and hang out with all your new fake friends, but don't come crying back to me when they stop talking to you because they realize all the annoying shit you do." Then i walked away with my head held high. It hurt, but she obviously didn't deserve my friendship if thats what she's gonna do.

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    • SoccerStud88

      whatabitch

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    • Steve2.0

      Ooh damn, what a badass. Aren't you just too good for everyone else!

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    • coolio75650932

      then you f**ked one of thr bitchs the end

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    • Ozzy

      aw sad story :/ , hope it got better

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  • Ldizzy1234

    I would talk to them about it first. Then make my decision.

    I would ask them why they're acting the way they're acting, then If they say that they'll change, I'll give them a chance. If they don't change, toodles!

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  • Hey, listen. A real friend is someone who never turns their back, who is there for you always, no matter what. If you always had doubts about them, they probably aren't a real friend. I'm really sorry. If they've always been like this, do you really want to stay with them?
    However, everyone has bad days, and friends do stay together through thick and thin, and that includes fights. So if he/she is just going through a phase, stick with them. It might turn out all right.
    'Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.'

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    • lun

      after a few days my friend was back to normal , thanks !

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      • :D
        Good for you!

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  • vitamello

    It all depends. This poll is very vague. It depends on how close a friend, why they were being mean etc... If a best friend quit smoking and starting being mean I would still be their friend to see them through this difficult time. If a not-so-close friend started being mean to me for no reason I would dump their ass.

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  • OppositeofNormal

    Well, I'm mean to my friends, so I deserve it.

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  • People have bad days; so if they are being abnormally rude, then I ignore it or give them a raised eyebrow. If being an asshole is a normal part of their personality, then I have better things to do with my time than be their friend.

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  • Flea50

    What do you mean "mean", like them saying "shut the f^^^ up, everyone hates you" mean? or them doing something to impress other friends that people forget after some laughs?

    If first one, no.
    If second one, who cares yes.

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  • howaminotmyself

    Yes, and I'd buy them a beer, give them chocolate, or perhaps a plant.

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    • Steve2.0

      Then maybe poison the beer and chocolate.

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  • Steve2.0

    If my friend started being mean to me, I would double the meanness and make their life a living hell.

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  • Mersaphe

    I broke up with my friends sometimes

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  • megadriver

    Probably. I'd tell him directly that he is being a dick. He could even get a punch if he takes it too far XD

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  • Flippin-dillydogs

    I had a Bestfriend once, from Kindergarten. Her name was Madison. We shared our secrets, deepest deepest secrets, we sat on the bus together, and we had the same crush.Until one day, she moved away, i was devistated. Ever since she's left, ive never found a friend like her again.

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  • Fashion4ever

    Ms. Caffinated

    YOU TELL HER GIRL!!!!

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  • coolio75650932

    i would punchem in the face and say ''learn some manners faggit''

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  • LookSomeonesWelding

    i'd give them some time - theyre probably just going through a tough time or something. After all, I wouldnt become friends with him if i didnt know he was a genuinely nice person.

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  • Marinar4Sauce

    Shit happens, people's moods change depending on their situations... I would want someone to stick with me through that, and I would do the same for any of my friends.

    Yeah, I would stay friends with them. If they just become a jackass for no reason, I would put my foot down if they were mean to me or whatever, but I wouldn't abandon them.

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  • bichonsrock

    in odd girl out, loved it when Vanessa told Stacy , kind of wish she slammed Nikki against a locker,

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  • :)Smily:)

    a real friend would always have your bck :)

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Dumb and vague.

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