If you could improve just one thing...

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If you could improve just one of the things below, which one would it be?
Please, think about this question especially with regard to romantic relationships, mating, love life etc.

my physical appearance (I am male) 32
my sexual techniques, sexual skills/performance (I am male) 9
my personality (I am male) 25
none of them, I am perfect the way I am (I am male) 8
my physical appearance (I am female) 37
my sexual techniques, sexual skills/performance (I am female) 5
my personality (I am female) 15
none of them, I am perfect the way I am (I am female) 8
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  • RapidlyRotatingPanda
    11 years ago

    Personally, I would rather be me than anyone else.

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    • phillustine
      11 years ago

      Agreed.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Nothing. I'd hate to be exceptionally good looking. I get the feeling that people treat you differently or misunderstand you and I'm already quite definitely misunderstood enough.

    I don't always like myself but I don't want to be something other than myself.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    My personality isn't something I'd ever want to change, ever.

    My physical appearance isn't something that is in any way important to me or something that I value. It could be better and it could be worse, but I neither appreciate nor dislike it. Looking good is the definition of unimportant to me. Even if it was, it would be something I could do myself in only a bit of time without wasting a chance to instantly improve some other area of my life.

    So I'll go for "sexual skill". It's probably the one I'm worst at and the only one that would ever cause me to be insecure.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Probably my temper. It's been both a gift and a hindrance.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I get the feeling that even if I were to wake up tomorrow looking like Adriana Lima, I would still have the same distorted self-image. I would go with personality.

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    • chatter289
      11 years ago

      Agreed

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    Appearance. I don't think I'm ugly or anything, in fact I'd say I'm pretty alright looking, but I have been told that I'm "unattractive" and I would like to look as good as I feel.

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  • MarianasTrench4
    10 years ago

    I like who i am but...i dont exactly know who i am.
    Make sense?

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Sometimes in certain positions, on certain days sex can kind of hurt. I would change that physically/sexually about myself.

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  • UhhhOK
    11 years ago

    My personality. Definitely.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I have been told i look good so physically im satisfied, sexually im pretty good (at least that's what i have been told lol)

    If i was to change anything it would be my laziness. Lol i dont know what catagory that would fall under tho. So i voted personality.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Does "personality" include learning disabilities and mental illness? Also, what if I want to change one of these things, but it's for my sake, not my partner's? For example, I would like to be about 6" taller and not grown creepy black hairs under my belly button (they are so gross), but my fiancé likes my height and doesn't care about my freaky belly hairs that I keep plucking.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    my voice, especially singing voice

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  • kit291
    11 years ago

    i would change my appearance some of you may think it's crazy, as I've been told my many. But i don't like somethings about myself and that's normal. I do think that if i had the chance to change something i couldn't go though with it.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      The only thing you should change is that blue hair part. Other than that, I would say you are one of the best looking females I have seen.

      That wasn't me flirting, just being honest. You also look good in red.

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      • kit291
        11 years ago

        thank you. but whats wrong with the blue? =]

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          Nothing exactly wrong with it, I just think you would look far better without it. You don't need it. I think just having plain blonde would be better for you.

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          • kit291
            11 years ago

            oh ok then. it's nice to know that. i actually have blonde and rainbow hair now... but it's nice to know that someone likes my blondeness.

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            • [Old Memory]
              11 years ago

              Nooooooooooooooo. No rainbow hair. You'll take away all the attention from your face with a rainbow colored hair style, which is bad. Go back to blonde!

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    11 years ago

    I don't feel bad about myself. But if a fairy offered me those choices I'd sure take some free muscles.

    And maybe a bigger...
    No, I guess I couldn't say that to a fairy.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    I just wish I had some confidence. I'd change my appearance, but if I was confident in the first place I wouldn't be so dissatisfied with the way I look.

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    Every single birthday, fallen eyelash, shooting star, and what have you i wish that i could be able to talk more and be able to think of things to say in conversations. so my personality i guess.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    I'd be no more than the girl in the mirror.

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  • midnightdreary1234
    11 years ago

    I guess my personality. Just because I'm shy and wish I was more outgoing.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      I like your username.

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  • nAt2017
    11 years ago

    Physical appearance. I feel like, if I were to be better-looking, I would be more easy-going and probably less insecure. Therefore, I affect both.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    my body. not the outside, but the inside.

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    That is a difficult question to answer. At first blush, I'd choose physical appearance so that I could go from average looking to gorgeous. But if I could change my personality to be more confident and less shy, then I probably wouldn't be worried about my looks anymore.

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