If you are asexual

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Is it a good idea to date someone from a distance?
It seems like he enjoys sex and he has tried sexting with me which I refused. I also told him honestly that the last guy I dated (whom I rejected this guy for at the time) and I went separate ways because he had an incredibly high sex drive and I dont and we never had sex through because I got pressured which didnt help make me more excited about it. He's since kept texting me really wants to meet me. He says we can stay in a hotel which doesnt sound very good to me.

I am torn because im attracted to this guy but ive been attracted to many guys that changes nothing but ive considered just agreeing to date one of male friends this year. None of them are extremely sexual and maybe its a good solution for me. Maybe I would even enjoy it with a friend when I try it and it will be a good experience instead of a pressured one. I wouldnt wanna date another asexual, many of them dont like kissing or making out which I do.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    Girl, “meet in a hotel” means have sex. This guy wants to have sex. If you don’t want to that’s completely fine, but call this off. He will probably protest but remember “I don’t want to” is a sentence. You don’t owe him anything. Block him if he gets nasty.

    Remember you do not HAVE to have sex, you do not have to “get it over with”, being celibate at any age is a valid choice. We are not ferrets, we do not die if we don’t have sex and what you do or don’t do in the bedroom is nobody’s business but yours. Anyone giving you any shit for what you chose to do with your body is no friend to you.

    I wouldn’t rule out dating another asexual, plenty of them do like cuddling and kissing it’s only the ones who are aromantic or touch repulsed who don’t.

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  • LondonGoldman
    3 years ago

    Its gonna be almost impossible to have a successful long term relationship if you refuse to have sex

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      I dont refuse but everyone pressures me the only men I trust and could therefore probably choose to have sex with because theyv never gone on about it would be one of my guy friends if we decided to date

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      • LondonGoldman
        3 years ago

        Sounds like every other female

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        • SkullsNRoses
          3 years ago

          Which is why no woman has ever, in the history of this world, had a one night stand or even slept with a guy after a just few dates. He must always go through a rigorous process of proving himself a worthy gentleman and earning her trust, oh wait...

          Most women feel sexual attraction, get over it.

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