If the one you love started smoking a lot of weed:

Not just a joint here and there, but continual smoking from sun up to sun down.

They would change so much that you would bolt. 48
They would have different, irresponsible friends and you would bolt. 26
They would be out of it most of the time but you would still like them 24
It wouldn't affect the relationship other than sex would be better. 86
Other (Add a comment) 29
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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Bolt - reasons 1 and 2 actually.

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  • catywompus

    I smoke everyday, but not 24/7. I don't do it to get all sorts of crazy stoned. I'm a responsible person who needs a bit of mellowing out now and then. No problem with that.

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    • iintolovethissite

      lol why do you need the mellowing out is it because you havent gotten highin a while? lol

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      • catywompus

        I'm bipolar and mood swings are no fun. I get cranky out of nowhere sometimes or mad or whatever and a hit or two has just the right chill effect.

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  • MTVfan20

    I put "other." It would depend on how often the girl smoked. If it was an occasional thing(Similar to a social drinker), it's ok. But if it was constantly, I don't think it could work out(I've never smoked weed ever).

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  • Herbaljunkie

    hey, you better not be talking about me there.
    its just weed, if you knew the TRUTH about weed and not believe the brainwash your beloved
    government told you you'd be passing that joint around with your loved one.

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    • iintolovethissite

      not all but alot of that brainwashing as you call it is true in small degrees then the goverment make out and if you cant see that ur smoking to much urself

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  • trytoforgetthis

    If someone I loved started smoking weed habitually.......I'd definitely have to join them! Maybe not as frequently as "all day, everyday", but maybe every night.
    It would be fun as hell (depending on the person, of course) and helps relax like crazy, which makes sleep amazing, if possible =D
    Also, if it's a bf/gf, ohhhhh man, makes fooling around fun, yeh???
    Buuuuut, this is coming from me, and quite frankly, me prefers natural over chemicals---for the most part. O_O

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  • karing4u

    Ok Im gonna be honest here ok. I had a bf that I absolutely loved so much I would give my life for him, however he started smoking weed alot too and I was so upset by it. But it was so much that he smoked weed but that the friends he had were horrible and they caused problems in our relationship. I left him because of the weed and shitty friends. But I can tell you this if you absolutely love him you will regret leaving him for something so silly. Since I left I have beat myself up everyday and I feel like I was too hard on him and I blame myself for losing him because he moved on. So now I let guys walk all over me and put up with everything you can imagine because I am afraid of making the same mistake twice. However dont just roll over and let him do whatever, talk with him and tell him how you feel. Work it out before you run it could be the worst mistake you ever made. Luckilly for me tho we have recently gotten back togethor but it took 14 yrs and I was in hell all those yrs without him. We did stay friends though also! Good luck and make the right choice for you

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  • Chokolat

    No problem with weed here.
    Just moderation.
    All day and all night is a turnoff.

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  • wheresmytardis

    I have no problem with smoking pot, but if you do it so much that it becomes a part of you it's unattractive.

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  • Queeny

    They would be high 24/7 and not only is that a huge turn off, but they would not be themselves.

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    • iforgotpassword

      its not that bad, yeh they eventually get a bit loopy as the years go by but they would be fun loving, caring, laid back.

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    • AmvEditor

      You clearly have no idea what are you talking about. When you are high you are yourself. The one who has the problem is her/he for not smoking weed!! nah nah i am kidding... but seriously!!!

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      • Queeny

        Well call me "crazy" but if you smoke weed all day everyday you are doing absolutely nothing with your life. Every now and again? Not a big deal. Everyday? No. Do something productive with yourself.

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        • Tisgranum

          I've seen people who smoke all day and have fairly productive lives still, and since they are high all the time, that is who they are.

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          • iintolovethissite

            then there just a stoner what else is there to them not a hella lot he/she is the stoner? nothing else he she is late for work unproductive ?

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            • Tisgranum

              Where did you get late for work? I've worked with people who where stone all day, and they where really good workers and always on time.

              For many people, weed doesn't stop you from working.

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        • AmvEditor

          Well yeah i have to agree with you on that, smoking all day is a extreme. And nothing is good when it's get overused even water.

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  • KiddKoolJoe

    It's hard to say, while I'm not against drugs, I'm not for them I guess I just wouldn't really like to be around someone that's just always stoned.

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  • mateo

    i smoke weed...alot...since i was like 12,but its dumb to just sit there and get higher and higher,i need to do shit,maybe one day out of the week i might veg out and toke my life away but the other 6 im a bodybuilding pothead scientist

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  • randypete

    ill be trashed too! sex is so good stoned

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  • Geneva5

    BONG ON !

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  • Saativaa

    my boyfriend smokes all the time !!! after work before work!! whenever he can, Being brought up around it is pretty hard not to do it. i dont mind that he smokes it , if he works hard then he may as well . he will never give up. its like telling girls 2 give up shopping and hell no!!! girls can not do that!

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  • Corkyspaniel

    I had this exact problem with my ex.

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  • cpb167

    that sounds pretty awesome, but i smoke like that myself

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  • party_in_my_pants666

    When I started to smoke I used to be 24/7 stoned outta my mind for two years straight.I've tried other stuff too but I haven't for a few months.I'm in my 5th year and I've cut down a lot but I realize the effects,its ok though just legalize.

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  • NothingxCrazy

    I used to smoke weed a lot but since I met my bf I have no need for it. I don't even drink. I find that you become a completely different person when you smoke. Which isn't something I enjoy anymore. And if my bf ever started and wasn't himself, I would ask him to stop for our relationship. If he refused, I would leave him. Shouldn't worry myself over his issues.

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  • Fuck that its just weed.Change the question to heroin then well talk

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  • xEmilyStrangex

    I used to smoke weed all day everyday and to be honest it did change me a lot, I was pretty care free and used to space out most the time, I didn't really care about what was going on around me, I thought I was happy, but it's only now when I stopped smoking all the weed that I realise how miserable I was.

    I don't think weed is a bad thing, I think it can really help some people, but after my expiernces I do believe moderation is the key.

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  • 420 <3

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  • Jjinxa

    ill be trashed too!

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  • misse

    my boyfriend smokes up all the time and i tried to make him stop but he keeps smoking behind my back.i already told him id break up with him if he continues because he becomes a dick when he's high.

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    • YeahRightlol

      Have you ever though that he's a dick when he's high because you continuously ruin his high? I'd definitely leave you. Weed is too expensive for your high to be ruined by a nag. =)

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      • arcadios91

        hahahahahahha

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  • Tisgranum

    Dunno, it would depend on how we get along. I've been around people who smoked weed all day that really weren't all that out of it and where good people. I wouldn't want to be around dealers all the time though; I don't need the stress of getting caught or busted and shit like that.

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  • 54mmyF0r3v3r

    The person I love stopped for me. Then almost a year and a half later he started back up. They will be funnier and everything, but it becomes their life. He wanted it from the time he woke up till he passed out at night. Most the time he went out at night to do it with his friends. They change the way they act, the things they do in the run of a day. They kind of get fat too, depending. One of my old friends got really fat b/c she was always hungry never stopped eating, the guy I love got chubby but he has to walk miles to get to junk food so he works it off, unless his mom leaves the truck at home then he gains weight. It is funny but also might break your heart.

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  • FocoUS

    My ex smoked way more pot than he said he did. It wasn't attractive at all.

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  • LovelyMay

    Well I wouldn't have a relationship with them in the first place! I would get to know them well enough to know that they would never do that!!

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