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Someone asks you a sex question that you are uncomfortable/embarrassed to answer. e.g. are you a virgin? when did you first have sex? how many girls have you slept with? are you good at sex?
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It honestly depends on the person. If they're a friend then I would give them an honest answer. However, if they're just some random person then I would lie. Honestly in our society nowadays it's almost as if one has to have sex in order to obtain some respect. At least, that's what I've observed.
i respond with an off the wall or witty answer.
Example of witty:
Person A: "How many girls have you slept with?"
Me: "At the same time?"
Example of off the wall:
Person A: "When did you first have sex?"
Person B: "My mom says im not allowed to have sex until I'm 30."
you must be a virgin to get uncomfortable by such lowkey questions like that. :(
I'd be embarrassed to talk about the time I lost my virginity. As yet, it's one of the few things I've not opened up about here. Much too embarrassing and humiliating.
only human beings would be embarrassed about their own reproductive habits. fucking pussy society we live in.
Hehe, I've never been brave enough to say it. It would need lots of embarrassing stories from everyone else so I didn't feel so conspicuous. :)
ohhh, my little, little dappled, dont make me jedi mind trick you into telling
or ill send "glitterdick" after you
Would you be inclined to reveal it on a poll asking, "What is your most embarrasing story?" Or something along those lines? I believe this is the second time I have seen you post about this but not actually reveal your story. If not, that is ok, but stop TEASING us!
If it's not one of my close friends, I just say,
"Mind your own fukin business and stay out of mine!"
I'm married over 20 years and don't feel the need to discuss sex with any other males.
Answer honestly but if they ask a certain question, then depending on who it is...then I'll lie.
Well...I go to a school that contains a lot of bitches that are ready to pounce on you if you say something considered 'slutty'.
Well anyway this girl I didn't like asked me if I would ever consider sleeping with a girl and I was like no. (which is a lie). She is a very untrustworthy character so I know anything I say she'll pass it on to other people.
I know its silly and that I should just be straight up and honest but I don't want my face plastered everywhere with the words 'slut' captioned underneath it. :/
Its fear of labels like "slut" and "whore" that make people fear being honest. I'm not saying anything about you, I'm just saying in general that labels and fear of judgement is what causes fear of honesty.
I personally answer any question I'm asked (sexual or whatever) as honest as I can. Even in high school and middle school I was like this and it turns out that I usually make the one who asked feel uncomfortable. (I guess because an honest answer isn't expected)
I guess if a question is uncomfortable, then tell the person that asked the question that you don't want to talk about that. Or tell them that you're uncomfortable.
If it's friends, I'd just answer the question. I don't care. Sex isn't something secret. We all do it.
If a stranger asks me, I'll either
A: Tell them to mind their own busines
B: Give 'em a witty response
i just stare at them strangely. i get this all the time and they will always make a fool of you, so its better to make a fool of them.
Random nosy douche: are you good in bed?
Me: Want a test drive?
Always shuts them up
I honestly have to say this issue has never come up in my life, and I am being dead serious.
I'll answer any questions and here are a few of my favorite answers...8 inches cut, twice a day alone, three with a hot chick, 4 if it's a smoking dude, yes, once but he used lots of lube, the foursome lasted three days. Any other questions? :-)
Only if its a close friend I answer, but I don't believe that just everyone should know about my personal life, so I just stay quiet if they ask me because it is very uncomfortable.
Most people don't ask that.
but hey sometimes being honest is fun... well if you can make the other person uncomfortable that is.
*evil grin*
I agree with most of the comments, it would certainly be a strange conversation should the topic come up. That being said someone almost always brings it up, especially when alcohol has been flowing freely.
I tend to ignore it myself, most people with egos would jump to answer the question anyway, especially in a group setting. If I was asked directly I would probably answer as honestly as possible as I dont have many sex stories in general and none that I remember as being embarrassing. Though if I didnt feel comfortable with the person I would probably mention it as being none of their business.
And if I didnt like the person I may even call them creepy.
Depends on the question and from who.
I have had all kinds of different sex. mff, mf, mmf,mm,3 couple orgy its all great but if it was a stranger why would they ask? Unless its on I.N.N. :)
First of all it's stupid to lie about something like that, it never ends well. My personal opinion is that you just tell it like it is. But obviously, if you're uncomfortable with answering it then just don't answer it.
Or just tell them to go fuck themselves.
If they are not close friends or family. I'd probably say nothing and walk away because that's just nasty.
a couple of my friends and i ask each other sex questions all the time! But we are highschoolers, so i guess it's just customary to be thinking about it and answering honestly... -_-
You can mix it up a little or play a half truth half lie. But i'm comfortable with my sex appeal and you ought to just tell them before they find out. hahaha
Ok so im big into sex education and if people ask me a sec question i dont get uncomfortable i try and answer their question the best i can and if someone asks me a personal sex question i still dont get uncomfortable and will usually answer honestly depending on who is asking or ask them why they want to know ( like if its a family member) so i can figure out what they really want to know like seeing if they have a deeper question about sex and are to afraid to just ask so they ask indirectly by asking about what i have done
It depends on who is asking. I would answer on a chat line when annonomous. A few freinds I may answer but not all
Since when is being a virgin uncomfortable expressing? I was happy to be one for as long as I was.
Well as I'm kinda young the people expect you to lie and they think you wanna impress them... but when you answer honestly they can't believe you answered honestly because they expected you to lie^^... thats what always happens to me because I'm really honest sometimes... but sometimes I also just lie... you'll never know if I'm honest or not... thats just great^^
Totally honest AND act really serious. Makes *them* feel uncomfortable :)
What makes these people think they have the right to ask you that? If it's a guy that asks me, I kindly/mysteriously tell them that they don't get to talk to a lady like that. You'd be amazed how being classy and coy will earn you so much respect! But anyway, that's what I say.