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Just walk away, don't even bother because it will not be worth the effort. Only immature women do this.
In the interest of fairness the same goes for women.
Only idiots who use friendship to get romantically close to someone would think like this way.
The real lesson here is: If you like someone, then confess right away. Don't use friendship as a stepping-stone into a relationship, because it's a big waste of time.
It's funny how only good looking women seem to have so many guy "friends", and the fat girls, who are extremely lonely, don't have any.
Very strange indeed. I'm sure it has nothing to do with the guys wanting to have sex with them though. It's definitely not that.
People are entitled to friendzone you. Just because you like someone in a way that goes beyond friendship does not mean they have to reciprocate those feelings.
As a matter of fact I bet you've also friendzoned some girls yourself even if you haven't outright said it to them.
Consider this: if a wet koala wanted to stick its tongue up your butt, would you agree to let it just because it always did things for you, brought you presents and food, always affirmed your actions, ideas, and feelings, and was a total suck up?
No one wants a wet koala's tongue up their butt.
Wait, what point was I making?
Friend zone is polite rejection. I you are a slob, what more can you ask for?
There are lots of ways to get caught in the friend zone.
1. Never express your feelings. I'm an INTJ so this happens to me a lot.
2. Always hang out with friends who are not single.
3. Be a wall flower at parties. If people don't see you as someone who can have fun, they will not like you.
4. Always be a good friend. This one is counter intuitive, but it mostly comes down to letting yourself get taken advantage of.
5. Always be available. Both girls and guys want what they can't have. If they can always have you, they won't want you.
6. Never be available. Self explanatory.
Doing these things will not make you a bad person - many will make you a very good person - but they will get you friend zoned. Yes there are immature girls out there, but you need to take some responsibility.
Ways to get out of the friend zone.
1. Sudden burst of feeling. If you confess your feelings for someone it may end the friendship, or it may get them to notice you. This is up to you.
2. Leave for a while, come back different. If you know you've been friend zoned you may want to not see the person for a while. Wait a month, change something obvious about your appearance, when you come back, be romantic.
3. Physical contact. Touch them. No, not in a creepy way, be innocent about it. I'm talking about hugs, brushing your hand against theirs, if their hair is out of place and they know it make yourself giggle and then say "here" and fix it for them.
Just some Ideas
If someone rejects you, don't keep trying to become something more with them. Just go find someone else. But don't simply hate someone for not sharing your romantic feelings and assume they are immature just because they would prefer to be friends. Also there's no such thing as a friend zone, people are completely capable of falling on love with a friend. (including women)
If someone rejected you and wanted to stay friends, they would have rejected you before the two of you became friends as well.
Some say I got a bad attitude...but that don't change the way I feel about you...and if you think it's about to weigh me down...look again cuz I ain't wearin' no frown
I hate everything about you!
I'm amazed so many of you found a way to reply to this it felt like reading a fortune cookie to me.