If a girl hesitates to confess her virginity status, is she a virgin?

I feel like the guy is kind of clueless if he still doesn't know if she is a virgin after deciding not to share her answer. But perhaps I may be wrong. Therefore, has anyone hesitated (more for a girl) to answer that dreadful question because you were ashamed that you are not clean anymore or just for the sake of it being a personal question and you just dont feel like sharing yet?

Yes, because shes ashamed of being a virgin 70
Yes, because if she wasnt, it would be easier to admit it 41
No, because she might be ashamed of not being a virgin 81
No, because its a personal question either way 138
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Comments ( 19 )
  • imsexyrite

    It depends really. She might fear judgement not being a virgin, being called a slut or something. Then again, she might be ashamed if she is a virgin. Especially if the male isn't a virgin, it'll put pressure on her.

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  • I don't understand what's the problem here. There's nothing wrong about being a virgin and nothing wrong about not being a virgin.

    If she doesn't want to tell someone about it, I understand but feeling ashamed because of one or the other, it's silly.

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  • dappled

    If she doesn't want to say, she doesn't want to say. That's all it means.

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  • lisac1919

    i hate how for boys its bad to be a virgin and for girls its bad to not be a virgin :S

    guess what...for ANYBODY to lose their virginity it requires both a female and a male...so we have to find some kind of middle ground with this issue of being embaressed...

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  • It's hard to discern the intent of others and often times when you try, you're revealing more about yourself than the other person.

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  • I think this means you are below the age you need to be to use this site.

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    • No hes the 40 year old virgin :P

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      • Haha!

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  • Legion

    Its sad, a woman saying that shes not a virgin, is a lot like a man who admits he is. many don't care, but there are others who criticize them, and seem to look down on them, even if they did something worse.

    For that, its shameful for them to admit it, even though it really shouldn't be.

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  • MLC

    Those results don't make sense at all xD

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  • NothingxCrazy

    She is just not open when it comes to speaking about things related to sex.

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  • Boredbastard

    i'm way too open. ;D
    if a stranger asked me that on the street, i'd be all like yeah, i'm a virgin. ;D

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  • SoccerStud88

    she's most likely not a virgin

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  • sleepingbeauty

    None of your business and what the hell does it matter if a girl is a virgin or not??? Are you?

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  • GinnyWeasley

    well once I was drinking with friends and they asked me if I had sex and even thought I was a bit tipsy, I lied and said yes cuz I didnt want to feel like the odd one out

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  • water223

    i think this depends on the situation. I'm a virgen but i'm 22 so it's kind of embarsing to admit.She probably just felt uncomfortable and didn't want to say.

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  • AnaBanna

    depends on the girl.. female virgins usually aren't afraid to admit it though, while if the girl is a slut, she most likely would try to hide that

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  • nikki_5610

    I don't think any female should be ashamed to admit she's still a virgin. So if she's hesitating to answer, than most likely she's NOT. But then again, it is her personal sex life.

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  • KokoroComplex

    Sometimes it can be an awkward question to some people.

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