If a friend developed a crush for you that wasn't mutual...

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... Would you stay friends?

I'd love to hear your explanation in the comments :)

Yes, I'd stay friends. 33
Not sure! 12
No, it's time to part ways. 8
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  • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
    9 years ago

    As long as they are able to recognize, without making you feel guilty, that you are just friends. Otherwise, no.

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    I think that co-ed friendships start due to hormonal changes which means that most of them are created around varying levels of "crushes". That's how I remember the seventh grade anyway.

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  • 101714
    9 years ago

    well i developed feelings to my bestest guy friend. he somehow found out.. and it was soooo awkward and i thought of breaking the friendship.. but then he developed the same feelings for me too so now we are a happy couple thats been dating for 2 months!!

    it depends on how you feel about that person. do you hate that person? or is that person a close friend? you need to ask yourself that first. if you guys are close friends and if you grow feelings for that person in the future then thats great

    but if you hate that person then i would cut the contact off. if you hate that person then that person might stalk you to make you theirs... so ya good luck

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    Principally, I don't see a problem. But the both of us would have to be able to live with it, not just me.

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    Well, I guess I would stay friends. I don't want them to think, "Oh no, I risked our friendship!"

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    There is this saying about a woman scorned.....
    That would be a tough one, especially if one was in a relationship.
    Honestly, I'm glad I don't have to worry about it happening.

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  • WhiteStallion
    9 years ago

    This happened to me exactly...I tried to remain as friends but I soon realized that I had to give this person time to get over me...so I broke contact for a few months and then re-established it...our relationship was much better surprisingly yet too clingy for comfort, so I broke it off for good. I felt like there were still unresolved feelings and since I was in a relationship, things were bound to get awkward.

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