Identity?

63% Normal
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Everything in my family revolves around blaming or caving in - there is no ambivalence in our relationships. They'll let me past their defenses only if I buy in...interacting with them is like an ongoing compromise, where they always want to get the better half of me. I'm struggling to find meaning, identity, sanity. Do I attach or detach from them? And no matter, all I can do is blame or cave in! Is my family normal?

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63% Normal
Based on 30 votes (19 yes)
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  • cupcake_wants
    9 years ago

    U should estrange yourself from them

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  • theAnomilyGuy
    13 years ago

    I'm sorry but while your wording might make sense to some it's probably unclear for most. I think it needs rephrasing and more specific descriptions. I just want you to find the best answer possible for your problem.

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  • iHatemF
    14 years ago

    Your family may be in need of a therapist because depending on your age this may affect you deeply. I have no idea if your family is normal but, sometimes my family would do the blaming and caving in but it doesn't happen on a everyday basis. I would suggest detaching from them since they aren't helping to your situation.

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