I wish my parents were still divorced, iin?

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Well I mean my parents divorced in 02 when I was 8 and at first caused to have some intesnse grief and guilt but then I found the positive in it like I do with everything. I became much more creative and I got to travel every weekned to my dad's in new hampshire and I made a lot of new friends there and life became much more interesting

They got back together in 09 and it felt weird for me. It's not that I'm complaining that there together but if they were still divorced life would be more interesting. Normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Same here </3

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Perhaps the problem is...

    You probably understand now... you had nothing to do with their original divorce. At the most you were a tool they used in the arguments but nothing you did could have stopped it from happening.

    And perhaps that's the problem now. You may be worried that they'll break up again.... but more importantly, if they chose to break up again, NOTHING you do will stop them.

    And knowing you can't change things ... either makes you relax about them, or makes you feel helpless and crappy.

    I'd suggest trying to talk to a counselor if you can.

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