I wish i was asexual

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I wish I was asexual and didn't have to worry about getting sex. I've written about this before on here, but I'm 28 and still haven't had sex with anyone. I was dating a girl for a couple of months not too long ago and she stopped talking to me after I opened up about it to her. There was a very lengthy article in the Atlantic about how younger people are having less sex than previous generations, and there was a line towards the end about how people who hadn't had intercourse by the age of 25 are likely not have sex for another 20 years. I feel I'm moderately attractive and women smile at me, I've given and received head, but I just get nervous and can't get it up when the moment comes. I wish I could just be asexual and not worry about this shit, but it's like this constant agony hanging over me. Is it normal?

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    asexual doesnt specifically refer to sex btw, being asexual means no sort of attraction to either male/female gender, an asexual can have sex with either gender if they wanted to without feeling that attraction (much like a hooker or escort service) thats still being asexual. the attraction is what makes a person asexual or not

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    So, what would you like us to do?

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  • BabyLane
    5 years ago

    You don't have to have sex if you don't want to. Just because other people do it doesn't mean you're not normal if you don't. Sex should be something you do because you love the person and want to feel pleasure, not to do it because that's what's expected of you.

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