I wish i was a female sometimes

I feel your pain, bro. When you are unattractive, it is difficult not to acquire a cold attitude because it's a way to protect your heart. Even though I have the same problem you do, I am determined to always have faith in womankind. It takes effort, but try hard to notice which girls respect people for their values. Don't worry about this flirt shit. Go straight to the issue and tell her that you admire her perception of situations. Your comment will not be interpreted as flirty or hot. You will get friend-zoned, but guess what. You will have given her a feeling of a pervasive kind of strength that transcends social games.

A few good women are the quiet but moral radiance of their families, and have the commitment of steel. They need friends that stand for more than their appearance. Show her some admiration; put some wind under her wings. You can lift the best of womankind. I have faith in you.

PS. Sex isn't going to happen. Unfortunately, Darwinian selection eliminates genes from the gene pool. It's a heartbreaker. I feel the pain as well.

Well, you're sex obsessed and you compare yourself to others way too much for starters. Put away the porn, stop comparing yourself to the women you deem to be so unattractive and obese. Your jealousy will eat you up inside.

You don't know those people so you have no idea what their lives are like. You are just feeling sorry for yourself, and jealous of them, because your sex obsessed, and most likely waste a lot of time masturbating to pornography. Honestly, it's pathetic! For all you know maybe some of those women have really great personalities and impressive intellects for which their partners sincerely do love them. Or conversely, it's possible that many of these called fat, ugly women of whom your so envious are actually being used by their partner's for money, or they could be in just plain terrible, awful relationships.

If you want to be happy stop comparing yourself to other people, take a big break from your sex obsession and start working on yourself. If you want to be in a relationship and have a sex life work on yourself, work on being the kind of guy you would like if you were the kind gal to whom you tend to be attracted to most.