I will be 19 and never kissed...

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It just hit me..hard. And yes I will be honest and say I am highly ashamed of this.
It's not that I don't get approached by guys...I do (sometimes) I am just not interested in them.

Before you think it's my appearance it's not...I get a lot of compliments (mainly by females) that I am pretty. I get told I have a nice skin, hair and body. I keep up with my appearance very well. I eat very healthy, take good care of my hair, smell good, go to the gym, wear nice clothes etc but nothing just seems to happen *sigh*

I am very shy yes. But that hardly means nothing, my friend is shy and is in a long term relationship. Plus shyness won't stop guys from approaching you..
Looking back from 11-16 I had the oppotunity to kiss, but I didn't care about guys then...now I regret it and wish I did it.
When I think about this it upsets me. How do I not let this get to me?

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  • kittylitter
    7 years ago

    I'd be highly ashamed also!!

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  • sourgrapes
    7 years ago

    No its not bloody well normal...

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  • 59Rebel
    7 years ago

    I was 20 so nothing to worry about

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  • DolphinAngel
    7 years ago

    Honestly, if your inexperience really does come from a lack of desire or sometimes lack of interest in the people available, you will have to wait or approach the people you are interested in.

    I had my first kiss with 21 and I'm still a virgin. It feels a bit weird and makes me needlessly more anxious to eventually get past this but it's pretty normal especially considering the rising isolation we're facing.

    Anyway, there is no need to be ashamed of it, even though I'm not the person to tell you this, and my words probably mean nothing to you regardless.

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    • unknown11
      7 years ago

      true @DolphinAngel

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  • arthurtheaardvark99
    7 years ago

    I think you should broaden your search to include older men who would definitely appreciate your youth, beauty, and inexperience.

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  • dytrog
    7 years ago

    If you are a girl all you have to do is smile and say Hi to a guy. If he is interested you may get more than a kiss. If you want to.

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  • hgjukbjk
    7 years ago

    Make out with a mirror.

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    • Loveleest
      7 years ago

      Great idea!

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