I was wondering if is it really normal?

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well, i was wondering if it is normal to still think about your ex-girlfriend/boyfriend even though its 3 years passed.. we've been together for almost 4 years and we split up in a not very nice way.. i try to talk to her again but all i get was harsh words.. so i decided to leave her alone with her new boyfriend.. but even if i didnt see her for over 3 years.. im still thinking of her.. everyday i think about her.. is it normal to feel this way? its been so long yet i still feel the same way towards her even though i didnt see her till now.. it really makes me wonder if im normal or theres something wrong with my brain..

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  • JuliusE
    13 years ago

    You will continue to miss her until you find someone new. That's just how it is

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  • O1108
    14 years ago

    I had a man in my life for 8 years. We split and it hurt him really bad. I still think about him and care that he's alright. I dream about him and wake up calling his name out loud. My heart can't let him go but I don't chase him either. Its been 26 years. Its normal. What you do after us what counts most. Don't become a stalker.

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  • LA_Woman
    14 years ago

    Totally normal.You don't just block someone out of your mind if you had a meaningful relationship with them!

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  • matman40uber
    14 years ago

    first i love the girl im currently with very deeply, but sometimes i still think about my first gf from over 3 years ago.
    I think its normal, esp. if she had some important impact on your life

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  • xXPunkxRockXx
    15 years ago

    I feel they same way about someone except it's only been a year

    She probabley is your soulmate. You guys were probabley meant to be together who knows? But think about if she wanted you back.. would you be happy? or just happy to recieve your goal for soo long. Try dating other people and if it was really meant to be she will come threw

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  • sweatheart_635
    15 years ago

    Sometimes people only want something they cant have if u were back 2gether would u really be happy?

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  • snakechik22
    15 years ago

    i think its normal...i thought about my ex everyday for years after we broke up.. he was my first bf and we went out for a year and i still remember when he told me he loved me.. its been 6 years and i dont think ill ever forget him and ive been with an amazing guy for over a year now.. i wouldnt ever dream of leaving him for my ex but for some reason i cant let him go... i think its cuz i was with him at the best time of my life and now its gone..anywho wtf am i blabbing for.. its normal but find someone new let her go

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    You don't honestly think that this sort of thing is unheard of, do you? The whole music industry thrives on just this sort of thing.

    I'll give you some advise you won't take: Love somebody else. She has seen what you have to offer, and she wants something else. She's gone. It's over. Done. Fin.

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  • tis91
    15 years ago

    dude, it's time to let it go. all you're doing is making things harder for her and more than anything, you're making things harder for yourself. if she's got another bf, then it's absolutely over. you're stuck in your past when there's a lot going on around you! but i think it's perfectly normal to feel the way you do, there's always this one person who you just can't get over. just think about your life, about what you're making out of it.

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  • Rumpranger39
    15 years ago

    First of all if your speaking English, and I have to wonder some times, learn to speak it. Your question is not as disjointed as some but it is pushing the bubble. She, if I understand it correctly wants nothing to do with you. You are still nuts over her. Seek help, and keep looking until you find it! In many places you can get help for free! Even free medications. Help is out there, good luck.

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