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I was working nights, sleeping during the day and my girlfriend came in the room while i was sleeping an started rubbing my cock, she then put lube on me and started having sex with me, i was completly asleep, she later admited doing this 9 times, was that wrong? Was i taken advantage of? She has an orgasm every time, i never had one
| Was that ok for her to do? | 107 | |
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| Should i leave her? | 29 |
Well it is technically rape, but it depends if you feel taken advantage of. You should know whether you feel taken advantage of or not, we can't tell you how you feel. You could call the police, seeing as what she did was illegal, but it would be almost impossible to prove. Definitely leave her if you don't like what she did.
it's legally rape, but if you don't feel like you were sexually assaulted and honestly don't mind then there's no problem.
If you're interested in scaring her a little pretend to be asleep, and when she's halfway through sex suddenly jump up and scare the fuck out of her. You'll either have great sex together after that... or she'll be too scared to ever try that again.
If you would have said NO!!! or STOP! and had any terms of not wanting it then yes it was sexual abuse...
Whereas unless she slipped you a pill....it would be pretty hard to prove now wouldn't it?
Isn't this the same for guys who do that to girls while they sleep? I think the best thing to do is ask beforehand. "hey i know you might be asleep later, but can i do it if you are?" I've known girls who feels its very wrong, and others who say they prefer it.