I wanted him but now i dont

So me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary is just around the corner and u mean he's an older guy but im quite young at 20 and we've yet to have sex, we've done some stuff but in the end i have yet to even see his dick. Yes we live together. And just for a long time i wanted him to take me and make me his but as tine goes on in just loosing interest in a sexual life with him. At first he didn't want to get but then appearintly he got degreaser on his dick and its healing I dont know.. it seems like he's lying cause he says it bleeds if he gets to vigorous with his checking on it yet he has no problem with me grinding on him till he cums. I dont know, thoughts please

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think there is something wrong with this dude.

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  • TerriAngel

    Degreaser on his dick?
    Thank you, now I've heard the lamest excuse EVER.
    Should I even ask how it got there?
    Or, how it takes a year to heal?
    Or, if it's that bad why he hadn't been to an emergency room/doctor?
    He's not into you.
    Doesn't matter why.
    Your best option is to move on.
    Don't waste another year.
    If a guy isn't trying to get some on the second date, somethings wrong.
    Doesn't mean you have to give it up.
    But, he should be trying.
    He should be letting you know he wants you.

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    • I'm sorry i shoulda clarified on that it's been healing about 3 or 4 months now, but yes you are right. Emotionally n junk we have a strong connection but physically.. I mean we don't even cuddle

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      • TerriAngel

        Anon, are you stupid?
        3-4 MONTHS to heal...
        I've known women give birth and be at work the next day.
        If I dated some guy trying this crap:
        1 Did you break your wrist too?
        2 Hmm, cat got your tongue?
        Or, as suggested.
        You're a troll.
        That said, I hear trolls have long ones.
        Is it true?

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        • No im not stupid but im also not familar with such matters and I've had a similarish problem caused by a chasity device that took forever to heal so yea I semi believe him. I am definitly not a troll. I am very much dick starved due to this n irs very frustrating

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  • WewLaddie

    It's absolutely normal, but it's not good. There's probably something he's not telling you, though it could be something in his mind that he himself doesn't really understand as well.

    In the meantime if he's really uncomfortable with using his penis, you can try to ask him to satisfy you with something else, like a toy or other parts of his body.

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  • Hardinawetdiaper

    Umm basically if you still love him and you still want to spend your life with him, Then that's all that matters.

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