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We are married since 1 year and I want to try anal . I proposed it to her and she agreed on one condition that she will do the same and bought a strap on which is bigger than me.
Should I go ahead or chicken out?
Yeah, and she's not the only girl to come up with this either! I've heard a lot of stories about this type of tit-for-tat trade when it comes to anal sex.
For your end if you're not afraid to get the return on it, I'd suggest letting her do you first. Make sure you know what you're asking from her when you go to do it. I know a lot of people that have been all for it until the tip goes in then it's like, dear lord NO!
So if you care about her, try to be the first one to get it, and you might want to get a couple of other toys to get you ready for it too. Sometimes just the fact that it's something that's BIG can hurt by itself so having a small tapered plug to ease in to get started is the best way to go but try to get something that is as big around the tip of her chosen tool near the base, even if you need two to do it.
I say this coming from the position of "If something is going to be not good, I'd rather it be done to me first before I ask the person I care about to do it."
So take my information at that value.
Your partner probably won't trust you and give you anal if you back out now. Don't chicken out.
You should definately do it. Anal is one of the best pleasures I have ever experienced. Enjoy getting our butt reamed by your wife and then nail hers. I guarantee you'll both feel dirty and cheap and you'll both have the time of your lives!!!
Don't back out let her fuck you first. Thats what i would want, my wife would make me go first either way.
I say you should go for it n then you do it too her, i think you two would love it.
My wife loves anal, make sure you have lots of lube as the first time could be painful. Once she has experienced it she will want it all the time. My wife tells me the feelings she gets are immense and much prefers me to fuck her in the ass than pussy. Go for it but put that lube all over to help penetration for the first few times.