I want to peg my boyfriend.

I've had this fantasy about using a strap-on on my boyfriend,
I'm a fairly small female, 5'3'' and he's large, 6'1'', but I still think about doing him from behind, about being the dominate one for once. I don't mind being on bottom, but what's so wrong about wanting to spice it up?

I just don't know how to talk to him about this.
I've joked about it before in the past, and he always rejects the idea.

But, maybe if I had a serious talk with him, I might be able to try it out. I mean, he's already mentioned about having his anus licked once by a ex, and he's gotten aroused before when I've rubbed his backdoor.

What should I do?

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Comments ( 25 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Talk to him, but don't push it. He has a right to say no just the same as you have a right to say no.

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  • mystery7

    Start with your tongue and work up from there.

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  • harmonic1

    Just make it something special, tease and entice him into it......promise him something wild and wear something special !

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  • CDmale4fem

    More guys in the world need more openminded women like you.

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  • bucho's_butt

    I've got a good idea for you. Start by suggesting that you two watch porn together and you pick the porn. What you'll pick will be some light femdom stuff. Gradually take the intensity up a notch over time and start doing it little by little in real life. Then one day you give it to him and he likes it because you conditioned him.

    It's kind of like putting a frog in cold water and gradually heating it up to boiling. They won't get out of the pot if the water gradually heats up. That's what you have to do. Brilliant idea isn't it? By the way I thought pegging was when you insert a piece of ginger into a guys pee hole..

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    • sexysonofsam

      If that what "pegging" is, it is definitely not for me, I shove nothing in my penis, only straws so that I can shoot my load further!

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  • sexysonofsam

    Wait until he is really into the swing of things...i.e. when he is totally aroused and getting his rocks off, take your finger and lube it up and enter him from behind, only a little at first.

    Do this a few times then bring on your idea again, he will know it is going to be great!

    If he wont let you get near his butt with your finger, give him a blow job, then move down to his scrotum and suck on his testicles whilst giving him a hand job, move down towards his butt and start licking and tonguing it...he will cave I promise!

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    • 53739

      You appear to be a professional.

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      • sexysonofsam

        A professional He-whore? yes indeed, I am also bi-sexual, If I cannot get it I buy it! are you answered?

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    • harmonic1

      good guidance !

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      • sexysonofsam

        Try it, he is guaranteed to like it!I do...he he he

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  • harmonic1

    Go for it

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  • Short4Words

    Anal stimulation and penetration are two different things. Not that I've had the pleasure, but the thought of getting porked is completely emasculating.

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  • Nsatiabul

    He is missing out if he does not allow you to do this. It has been shown that there is a 33% increase in stimulation and arousal during Orgasm when this method is utilized! Convince him, he will thank you later~

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  • Tsuki1776

    Mmmmm me too

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  • magic7

    I got hooked getting fingered, licked, and watching videos. I was convinced it was not gay or bi and my wife swore she would not hold fucking my ass against me. She used a trainer dildo that made it easier on my ass so I would desire to get fucked again. I had to totally trust her having no idea what it would feel like or how I would be emotionally. When she took my cherry things did change in a power shift to her side. I was hooked on her cock and quit begging to fuck her and she fucked my ass instead.

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  • FJK_frm_AK25

    Inda

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  • FJK_frm_AK25

    I'd b terrified if my girl tried fucking me kinda ass

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  • massagN4u

    I wish my wife or any woman would offer to Peg me! ! I want it so bad I peg myself with strap ons and crazy home made plow boys.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    If he's into it, go for it. It can be empowering:)

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  • 53739

    I wish I was your boyfriend.

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  • Gspyder

    Wait till he's horny and bring the idea up. Maybe even mention it while you're playing with his ass.

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  • reality1984

    Yes it's normal to want to feel power over a man.

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  • Arm0se

    Oh my! That sounds like heaven lol

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  • Crow

    If he always rejects the idea then he's unlikely to cave.

    You can reason that it's not gay because lesbians use dildos and they're not in denial about being straight. You can also try to ease into more dominant positions and toys (which don't involve anal penetration) before popping the idea again.

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